-Ms Divine
I was at the store today and I behind this couple that clearly had some communication issues. The wife or girlfriend was very loud and disrespectful. The young man was asking whether it was really necessary to buy this particular item because they already had some at home in three other colors. Instead of her just taking the time to think about what he said, she went off screaming at the top of her lungs. "Why do you care!" "I don't tell you what to do with your money!" ...Now, I understand where both of them are coming from but to clearly express it in public attempted to embarrass the other person and you is not necessary. Therefore, I felt the need to include these topics of "The Top 10 Marriage Mistakes" and as always some Tips & Suggestions. Live life..Enjoy to the fullest!
1. Lack of Respect
Don't badmouth your spouse to your friends or associates. Spouses need to be thanked. They need to know they are appreciated.
Tips & Suggestions:
Nasty Habits Can Hurt Your Marriage
More Marriage Quick Tips
2. Not Listening to Your Spouse
This includes allowing your mind to wander, paying more attention to the computer or television set, ignoring body language, and interrupting.
Tips & Suggestions:
Listening Non Verbal
Communication Tips
3. Lack of Sexual Intimacy
This is a death knell for a marriage. Seek medical counsel and therapeutic counseling if necessary. Don't leave your spouse wondering why you aren't interested in sex.
Tips & Suggestions:
Intimacy Sexual Issues & Problems
4. Always Having to Be Right
This includes lecturing your mate, or having to have the last word. Very few people can love a know-it-all forever. Admit once in awhile that you made a mistake or that you don't have all the answers. Don't answer every simple question with a long-winded explanation on the topic.
When was the last time you or your spouse said or heard any of these statements?
I love you!
Remember when....
You are so clever!
I'm proud of you.
You are so special to me.
5. Not Walking the Talk
Actions do speak louder than words. When you say you'll do something, do it. When you say you won't do something, follow through.
Tips & Suggestions:
So You Want to Be a Great Spouse
6. Hurtful Teasing
If your spouse says the teasing is hurtful, considers it a put down, or thinks that it is inappropriate, then stop it. Claiming that your spouse doesn't have a sense of humor or is too sensitive is being inconsiderate and unkind.
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7. Dishonesty
Having lies and secrets in your relationship can create distance and lack of trust
between the two of you.
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8. Being Annoying
This includes continuing to have gross personal hygiene habits, or always being late, or nitpicking everything your spouse does, etc. It is when you know you are annoying and you continue to annoy.
How to Fight Fairly
9. Being Selfish or Greedy
This is when you spend money on yourself, but make a big deal if your spouse spends a dime. This is not wanting to open your home to friends and family because you prefer to be alone and don't want the hassle of entertaining. This is hogging the remote, only going to cheap restaurants when you could afford better, or not watching movies your spouse wants to see.
10. Having Temper Tantrums
Every couple needs to be able to handle conflict in a constructive way. Having an angry outburst so that you can win an argument will make you the loser in the end.
Tips & Suggestions:
Conflict and Anger Letting Go
How to Forgive Your Spouse
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