<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279</id><updated>2011-04-21T20:06:51.292-07:00</updated><category term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><category term='Club Basic Packages'/><category term='Signature Sets'/><category term='About Us'/><category term='The Atlanta Guide'/><category term='Weddings-n-Anniversary'/><category term='Club Signature Sets'/><title type='text'>*                                *</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>65</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-7495078291843906582</id><published>2009-01-05T08:57:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-02T10:20:44.837-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Weddings-n-Anniversary'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Signature Sets'/><title type='text'>Exclusive Signature Set</title><content type='html'>Exclusive Signature Set&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;$200.00&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Prices based on one name engravement"&lt;br /&gt;"Items vary in price per engravement selection"&lt;br /&gt;4-Shot Glasses&lt;br /&gt;4- Champagne Flutes&lt;br /&gt;2- Scotch Glasses&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Margarita, Daiquiri, Martini are not included in this set.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;PRICE BASED ON (2) NAME ENGRAVE ONLY! ADDITIONAL CHARGES APPLY.EMAIL FOR A QUOTE IF NAME IS MORE THAN (2) WORDS.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-7495078291843906582?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/7495078291843906582'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/7495078291843906582'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/exclusive-signature-set.html' title='Exclusive Signature Set'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-3514101955245109830</id><published>2009-01-05T08:56:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-02T10:21:21.672-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Weddings-n-Anniversary'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Signature Sets'/><title type='text'>Bachelor &amp; Bachelorette Party Package</title><content type='html'>Bachelor &amp;amp; Bachelorette Party Package&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;$300.00&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#999999;"&gt;"Prices based on one name engravement"&lt;br /&gt;"Items vary in price per engravement selection"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5-Shot Glasses&lt;br /&gt;5- Champagne Flutes&lt;br /&gt;5- Wine Glasses&lt;br /&gt;5- Scotch Glasses&lt;br /&gt;5- Pilsner Glasses&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Margarita, Daiquiri, Martini are not included in this sets.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;PRICE BASED ON (1) NAME ENGRAVE ONLY! ADDITIONAL CHARGES APPLY.EMAIL FOR A QUOTE IF NAME IS MORE THAN (1) WORD.&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-3514101955245109830?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/3514101955245109830'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/3514101955245109830'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/bachelor-bachelorette-party-package.html' title='Bachelor &amp; Bachelorette Party Package'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-3499649393634975897</id><published>2008-12-22T09:16:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-02T10:21:49.186-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Club Signature Sets'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Signature Sets'/><title type='text'>Atlanta Spice Signature Set</title><content type='html'>Atlanta Spice Signature Set&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;$200.00&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;"Prices based on one name engravement"&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;"Items vary in price per engravement selection"&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4-Shot Glasses&lt;br /&gt;4- Champagne Flutes&lt;br /&gt;2- Pilsner Glasses&lt;br /&gt;2- Ashtrays&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Margarita, Daiquiri, Martini are not included in this set.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;PRICE BASED ON (2) NAME ENGRAVE ONLY! ADDITIONAL CHARGES APPLY.&lt;br /&gt;EMAIL FOR A QUOTE IF NAME IS MORE THAN (2) WORDS.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-3499649393634975897?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/3499649393634975897'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/3499649393634975897'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/atlanta-spice-signature-set.html' title='Atlanta Spice Signature Set'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-1413219677050201192</id><published>2008-12-20T08:59:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T10:34:24.109-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Weddings-n-Anniversary'/><title type='text'>A) Jynesis Package</title><content type='html'>Jynesis Package&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;$2,400.00&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;"All items are engraved with Bride &amp;amp; Groom names"&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;"Additional engraved options ex: graphic art"40-Shot Glasses&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;75-Champagne Flutes&lt;br /&gt;75-Wine Glasses&lt;br /&gt;75-Martini Glasses&lt;br /&gt;75-Daiquiri Glasses&lt;br /&gt;75-Margarita Glasses&lt;br /&gt;Add&lt;br /&gt;75- Brandy Snifters for $280.00&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-1413219677050201192?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/1413219677050201192'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/1413219677050201192'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/jynesis-package.html' title='A) Jynesis Package'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-6060550689265699143</id><published>2008-12-16T13:09:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-16T13:19:04.605-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Prepare yourself from bad credit</title><content type='html'>&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a title="PB Visa Gold Credit Card by liewcf, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/liewcf/894035077/"&gt;&lt;img height="375" alt="PB Visa Gold Credit Card" src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1324/894035077_e11024cac2.jpg" width="500" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;By &lt;a href="http://gaylife.about.com/mbiopage.htm" zt="18/1YF/Zf"&gt;Ramon Johnson&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Protecting yourself financially doesn't mean you're being mistrustful of your partner. Trust has nothing to do with it. Credit can take years to repair and the damage is often emotionally and financially devastating. Even if you can't imagine being without him and feel your relationship is going to last forever, think of your financial goals ten years from now and the possibility that he may not be around. By protecting your credit you secure your own future and the stability of your relationship. Heed these financial mistakes that can lead to personal ruin at the end of a relationship:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Leases/Mortgages&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sure you love them, but don't be quick to sign a lease or secure a mortgage until you've discussed financially responsibility. The discussion should extend beyond whether your combined resources will cover the payments.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Co-Signing&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Never co-sign on a loan with a term that is longer than you've been together or longer than you've known the person. You've been dating for a year, but who knows what may happen at the end of your 48 month loan term.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Credit Cards&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Credit cards are like the drugs of personal finances. They are oh so tempting. After all, the credit is great and you only have to pay the minimum balance every month. It eventually catches up with you, though, and you have nothing to show for it. What the credit card companies don't tell you is that by paying only the minimum balance (even at a reasonable interest rate) it could take over 40 years to pay off.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Joint Bank Accounts&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Share the household expenses, but keep separate personal bank accounts. Create a joint account where you both can deposit money for shared bills and incidentals. Come to a mutual agreement about the rules for use of the account.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Bad Credit &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you or he has bad credit make sure it's being actively repaired. Don't let the financial future of your partnership fall squarely on one person's shoulders. Should you distrust someone with bad credit? Not particularly. With the rising number of college grads leaving campus already in a credit hole, the "perfect" credit candidate pool is getting smaller and smaller. Also, people make mistakes and credit mistakes can take years (even decades) to repair. Bad credit isn't a plague that you should avoid. However, a person with bad credit and a nonchalant attitude is another story. Don't let him take you down by repeating the same mistakes over again. If you can't afford a purchase or a loan on your own, then don't co-sign or secure it in your name only.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.creditrepair.com/lp/credit-personalized.html?tid=5057.400.ContentFixCredit&amp;amp;wm_lpID=6232656&amp;amp;wm_ctID=92&amp;amp;wm_kwID=4982537&amp;amp;wm_mtID=4&amp;amp;wm_content=1&amp;amp;wm_g_crID=2543464217&amp;amp;wm_g_kw=credit+fix&amp;amp;wm_g_pcmt=gaylife.about.com&amp;amp;wm_g_cnt=1&amp;amp;wm_defaultURL=http%3a%2f%2fwww.creditrepair.com%2flp%2fcredit-personalized.html%3ftid%3d5057.400.ContentFixCredit&amp;amp;wm_kw=credit+fix"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;[Read More about Credit Repair]&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://gaylife.about.com/od/gaysexadvice/a/creditrepair.htm"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-6060550689265699143?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6060550689265699143'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6060550689265699143'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/12/my-partner-left-me-with-bad-credit.html' title='Prepare yourself from bad credit'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1324/894035077_e11024cac2_t.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-6558939117859310605</id><published>2008-12-15T10:14:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-15T10:14:29.693-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>How To Initiate Sex</title><content type='html'>When was the last time you surprised your man by seducing him? I bet it was that long a go that you can`t even remember. It is time to let your man know how much you still fancy him and how much you still want him. Take the lead for a change. This will not only drive him wild but will let you show him exactly what you want and get exactly what you want. Don`t worry if you are out of practice or have never initiated sex before because you can`t go wrong with these tips.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;u&gt;For the less confident&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Show a bit leg&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can initiate sex without having to say a word. Put on your best G-string, suspenders and stockings and you want have to do a thing. He will be jumping on you before you can whisper his name.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Romance&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Cook him his favourite meal, light some candles, turn out the light and play your favourite songs. He won`t need to ask what`s for dessert.&lt;br /&gt;Massage him&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Take the oils to bed and wait until he is relaxed and tell him you will give him a massage if he returns the favour. Rub the oil into the palm of your hands to warm it up the gently massage his back and shoulders working your way down his back to his buttocks and firmly squeeze them working your fingers through his legs and down his thighs but don`t touch his penis. Then whisper in his ear that you want him to do the same to you. Don`t bank on your massage getting finished.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Playing games&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Playing games is a good way to initiate sex whether you are confident or not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;u&gt;For the more confident&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Phone sex&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Phone him up at work and tell him what you want him to do to you and what you want you want to do to you. If you are at home you could get yourself aroused masturbating while you tell him what you are doing to yourself. The chances are he won`t be able to respond to you so will be wetting his trousers with excitement. This is the ultimate turn on for any man and will get him through even the hardest work day. He will be racing home to give you a helping hand.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;A few words&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Write him a short note telling him what you are going to do to him when he gets home, tell him what you will be wearing, what you want him to do to you, in explicit detail. Put the note in his brief case, lunch box he won`t be able to resist going to the toilet to read it in private.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Dressing up&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Buy some sexy new lingerie, a maids outfit, dress as a school girl take the lead and ad some spice this will not only make you feel more confident and sexy but it will make your partner look at you through different eyes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Play time&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Time to invest in some sexy toys. Buy a vibrator and leave it on your bed in a gift wrapped box with a bow round it and tell him to go to bed and you will follow him up. Hopefully by the time you get in he will be wearing nothing but a big smile waving the vibrator. Buy some hand cuffs and you go to bed first. Cuff yourself to the bed and lie naked waiting for him to come in this will turn him on to the point where it will be hard for home to contain himself. To soften the room and hide the parts of your body you don`t want him to see light some tea candles.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-6558939117859310605?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6558939117859310605'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6558939117859310605'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/12/how-to-initiate-sex.html' title='How To Initiate Sex'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-5534236839886281837</id><published>2008-12-15T10:12:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-15T10:13:02.472-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>How To Talk Dirty</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/swordfish7/1003015571/" title="Red sheets by Swordfish7, on Flickr"&gt;&lt;img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1107/1003015571_326feddbf2.jpg" width="400" height="302" alt="Red sheets" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Actions speak louder than words" is a good saying but sometimes is not enough. Especially in the bedroom. Talking dirty with your partner is not only a turn on but is the only way of leting them know what you want sexually. But - this is easier said then done. Talking dirty is not about what you see on porn films. The corniness, the swearing, but about feeling loved, sexy, wanted. Follow these and you won`t know why you ever doubted yourself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;"I really liked that"&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To get use to talking about sex the best time is after you have had sex. Why after sex you might ask. Well you have just had sex so you have something dirty to talk about. For example, "I loved the way you were kissing me while`st your penis was inside me." (You can call his bits what ever you feel comfortable with.) This is not only complimentaing him but it is telling him what you like and is guarenteed a second round of sex.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;"Talk dirty to me"&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While having sex ask him to talk dirty to you. This will suprise him in a pleasant way and if he is a bit shy or doesn`t know how to then this is your cue to talk dirty to him. On the other hand if he does talk dirty and you like what he is saying follow suit and talk back to him telling him what you like and what you want him to do to you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Use your hands&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When sitting together at dinner perhaps, stroke his leg and tell him what you would like him to do to you or what you would like to do to him. This works best when you are eating out, because he will have to wait to get you home to get to business.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Give him a call&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Phone your guy up and tell him waht you want to do to him and the other way round. Phone him during office hours say just after lunch. He will be sweating in his pants and will have him on a high all day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;A short note&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are still not confident enough to talk dirty to him then write him a short note telling him what you want. In a letter you can be as explicit as you like and can write the way you know he would like to hear it.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-5534236839886281837?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/5534236839886281837'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/5534236839886281837'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/12/how-to-talk-dirty.html' title='How To Talk Dirty'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1107/1003015571_326feddbf2_t.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-3771671497488723319</id><published>2008-12-10T21:39:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-10T21:39:51.723-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Lover's Corner</title><content type='html'>&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a title="sex_positions_missionary_position by shyznogud2, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/23576196@N04/2300044370/"&gt;&lt;img height="375" alt="sex_positions_missionary_position" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2070/2300044370_5a4b1ef6b7.jpg" width="500" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;-Ms.Divine&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Although, the picture doesn't give you a visual (which I did on purpose) I chose this article for you to use your imagination. Why? Because that is what many relationships lack or how Sponge Bob says Immmmaginnnation...It's important whether man or woman to continue to perform and spoil your mate throughout the relationship as you did when you first captured their heart. It's been said that when you get married your well runs dry. Why? Well I figure bills,children and other responsibilities keep you occupied. But kick back and relax! Get your groove back!! Enjoy!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;EROTIC INSTRUCTIONS:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your partner slouches down in a comfy but sturdy chair, his legs slightly spread. You straddle his lap as you face him, your knees bent and open against his chest, your feet braced against the seat of the chair. While your guy grips your hips, thighs, or butt, you clutch the back of the chair and begin moving up and down along his shaft.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;WHY YOU'LL LOVE IT:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With your knees bent and your hands and feet using the chair as a springboard, it's the bounciest nooky style ever — perfect for teasing your guy with fast up-and-down action, then shifting gears and going for wide circular motions. Plus, your bodies are close enough for the intimacy of kissing, touching, or just giving each other incredibly lusty looks.&lt;br /&gt;The slicker, the better as you ride this wanton wave. Before you start bonking his buoy, grab a little extra lube to keep things extra wet. Heat things up more by putting your motion lotion on each other — the feel of your hands sliding against his most sensitive spots will definitely get him in the mood.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://honeymoons.about.com/gi/dynamic/offsite.htm?zi=1/XJ/Ya&amp;amp;sdn=honeymoons&amp;amp;cdn=travel&amp;amp;tm=14&amp;amp;gps=178_262_1276_607&amp;amp;f=10&amp;amp;tt=14&amp;amp;bt=0&amp;amp;bts=0&amp;amp;zu=http%3A//magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/no/articles/0%2C%2C544153_633458%2C00.html"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-3771671497488723319?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/3771671497488723319'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/3771671497488723319'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/12/lovers-corner.html' title='Lover&apos;s Corner'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2070/2300044370_5a4b1ef6b7_t.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-8758873055976945626</id><published>2008-12-08T10:07:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-08T10:09:13.849-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>How To Create A Romantic Evening For Two</title><content type='html'>&lt;em&gt;-Ms.Divine&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Valentines Day is drawing near! It's time to prepare for that special night of passionate love. Ever had a romantic night that ended up a disaster? Do Tell!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a title="The Table: Valentine's Day Dinner by dalylab, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/dalydaly/2268984687/"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;img height="500" alt="The Table: Valentine's Day Dinner" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2158/2268984687_afc57b592d.jpg" width="375" /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;Step1&lt;br /&gt;Brainstorm ideas for your evening. What kind of food or activity does your significant other like? Would it be better for you to cook or treat yourselves to a romantic restaurant? A night of dancing or a carriage ride in the park? Plan an activity that will be appreciated and unique.&lt;br /&gt;Step2Have more than one act to your romantic evening. After you see a show, enjoy a special dessert at a favorite restaurant. After dinner, have a limo waiting to transport you to a lovers' rendezvous. With each additional act of your evening, your lover will be more impressed and enamored.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Step3&lt;br /&gt;Personalize everything you can. If there is a particular &lt;a class="iAs" style="FONT-WEIGHT: normal! important; FONT-SIZE: 100%! important; PADDING-BOTTOM: 1px! important; COLOR: darkgreen! important; BORDER-BOTTOM: darkgreen 0.07em solid; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent! important; TEXT-DECORATION: underline! important" href="http://www.ehow.com/how_2004331_create-romantic-evening.html#" target="_blank" itxtdid="6946755"&gt;meal&lt;/a&gt; that is meaningful to your relationship, make it. If there is a special song, play it or sing it. If there’s a special place, visit it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Step4&lt;br /&gt;Steal. Love songs, love poems and romantic movies are there for the taking. The less eloquent among us are better off using others’ words when our own fail or feel inadequate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Step5&lt;br /&gt;End with a bang. Save your biggest and most romantic gesture for the very last part of the night. The evening should rise in a crescendo, building with each stage to the final grand climax.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.ehow.com/how_2004331_create-romantic-evening.html"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Source[..]&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-8758873055976945626?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/8758873055976945626'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/8758873055976945626'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/12/how-to-create-romantic-evening-for-two.html' title='How To Create A Romantic Evening For Two'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2158/2268984687_afc57b592d_t.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-6936917604965462131</id><published>2008-12-02T12:25:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-02T12:31:41.725-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Benefits of Saving Sex Until Your Married</title><content type='html'>&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a title="Day 119: Sex and the City by That Damn Redhead, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/thatdamnredhead/2570176180/"&gt;&lt;img height="333" alt="Day 119: Sex and the City" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3046/2570176180_6cab8d2e86.jpg" width="500" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Everyone has their own reason for waiting. Here are some of the most prominent benefits. Basically, you do it for yourself and for your own reasons. If you don't know why you're abstaining you need to rethink things and make sure you're doing it for yourself and not just because it was something you were brought up with.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Instant Intimate Recall&lt;br /&gt;Attachment&lt;br /&gt;You're going to have it anyway&lt;br /&gt;Self respect&lt;br /&gt;STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases)&lt;br /&gt;Potential regrets are just not worth it&lt;br /&gt;It takes the pressure off&lt;br /&gt;Makes it easier to find someone right for you&lt;br /&gt;Aren't you worth wating for?&lt;br /&gt;No worry about getting pregnant&lt;br /&gt;Respect for your future spouse&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.geocities.com/thevirginclub/Benefits.htm"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-6936917604965462131?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6936917604965462131'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6936917604965462131'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/12/benefits-of-saving-sex-until-your.html' title='Benefits of Saving Sex Until Your Married'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3046/2570176180_6cab8d2e86_t.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-2388818910941943460</id><published>2008-11-29T14:34:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-29T14:40:24.838-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>How to get a boyfriend</title><content type='html'>&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a title="Holding Hands by WolfSoul, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/wolfsoul/1352149315/"&gt;&lt;img height="500" alt="Holding Hands" src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1116/1352149315_8ef27cb7f8.jpg" width="354" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;Presently even guys are becoming selective about girlfriends.Just having the drop dead gorgeous look and the most impeccable facial features are not enough to attract a guy. They want their girlfriends to be smart, witty and sensible as well. So girls other than improving your physical appearance its time to work on your intellectual side as well. Go ahead and check out few of the cheesiest and smart ideas to deck up and groom yourselves for the guy of your dreams.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You should know your choice regarding a boyfriend and accordingly make a list of qualities and attributes you would like to see in him. You can consider the qualities like; he should be soft spoken, respectful, smart and witty.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One important aspect in getting you a boyfriend is to make loads of friends and expand your friend circle. It's safe to get a boyfriend from within the friend circle and you can't find the right guy until you make new friends. In fact knowing new people helps to expand ones arena of knowledge.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you start liking some guy having the required qualities then try to make friends with him and relate to his interests. Talk to him about his ambitions and his career and take interest in his favorite sport. Discuss the intellectual and knowledgeable issues related to the topics of his interest to make him feel special and important. Incase you don't have the nerves to approach him directly, approach him through a common friend. But never give him a hint that his refusal can break your heart.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Despite all these empirical proposals you may fall in love with a totally different person and not some one you aspired to be with. Be open to such circumstances. Despite different love tests and compatibility tests it's said that love comes in different shapes and sizes, you just need to locate the right person and the desire to stay together can even make the worst enemies become the best lovers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.mydearvalentine.com/boyfriend/how-to-get-boyfriend.html"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-2388818910941943460?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/2388818910941943460'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/2388818910941943460'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/how-to-get-boyfriend.html' title='How to get a boyfriend'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1116/1352149315_8ef27cb7f8_t.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-515188418943570176</id><published>2008-11-29T14:23:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-29T14:37:03.542-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Body Language: Attraction</title><content type='html'>&lt;a title="Day 100 : Shy by Alexis Deadly, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/alexisdeadly/2744864581/"&gt;&lt;img height="500" alt="Day 100 : Shy" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3235/2744864581_a24bb3b7ef.jpg" width="333" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why don’t you use this art to select a perfect valentine so that your valentine gift idea doesn’t go waste that you have been working on for since long time. The non-verbal language can be of great help to the lovers who want to make sure whether the person with whom they have fallen in love is attracted towards them or not.Given below are some relevant tips and ideas for Attraction Body language.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Tips and Ideas for Attraction Body language&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;According to the body language reading, exposure of one’s palms as well as wrists represents a person’s feeling of attraction towards you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;If a person leans his or her shoulder in your direction, it should also be taken as a sign of attraction&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Whenever you make an eye contact with him or her, he or she smiles back. This again is an attraction body language .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;If a person often touches you while he or she is talking or walking along then it is an appropriate sign of attraction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;If you find the person often gazing at you and that too continuously then it is the time to get ready for a new relationship, as he or she has definitely fallen in love with you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;If a person especially a woman rolls her eyes at your presence then it represents her lack of interest in you. Moreover, it also symbolizes that she is embarrassed by your presence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;If the lady crosses her legs and her knee is pointing at you then it signifies that she is highly interested in you, but is nervous in admitting so.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;On the other hand if the lady is sitting with crossed legs and her knee is pointing in a direction other than your own, it would be advisable to stay away from her, as she is simply not interested.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;If the lady often leans backward while talking, it is not a good sign and it would be highly appropriate to forget her. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.mydearvalentine.com/body-language/attraction-body-language.html"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-515188418943570176?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/515188418943570176'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/515188418943570176'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/body-language-attraction.html' title='Body Language: Attraction'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3235/2744864581_a24bb3b7ef_t.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-8888130971252855898</id><published>2008-11-29T13:59:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-29T14:21:31.124-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>How To Flirt</title><content type='html'>&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a title="purple smokey eye by April J0, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/22299232@N07/2339391935/"&gt;&lt;img height="500" alt="purple smokey eye" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2117/2339391935_f69680c772.jpg" width="333" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-Ms.Divine&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;As always I have to add my two cents. Have you ever had a friend that just talked too much? Maybe they never..ever had a healthy relationship. Makes you wonder huh? Well, here are my suggesstions to the flirting scene. As always read and enjoy!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Ultimate NO NO&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Do not give out to much information!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you were a stripper in highschool..to some men or women that wouldn't be appealing and also raise &lt;em&gt;other&lt;/em&gt; questions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Do not seem desperate!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is not advisable to express how your past relationships didn't work out and so now you want to marry and have a child with the first man or woman you meet because you feel it's too late.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Leave your sexual lifestyle to their imagination!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Telling a potential date that you can do this and that..and rock their socks off says alot about your character.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Listen!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is most important to listen to what he/she is saying, just in case you might have missed the part that have a problem with rejection, recently was admitted or has some sort of drug problem&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For some, flirting is an art and for some it is a way of life. But the main objective of flirting is to find someone compatible enough to be your soulmate and life partner. Flirting is the only way to get started in a romantic relationship at a place like dance party or a company get together. You may even not see that person ever again who you may have flirted with. Many people are not easy with the thought of flirting, they rather get nervous. Therefore, it is said to be an art. But this art and skill can be learnt. Some useful tips are below:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1. Don’t Expect Much:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you want to enjoy flirting then don’t get serious with it. You may have to spend very small time with that person and it may be the last time also. Don’t approach anybody with the intention of dating or getting married. If you do this, you may be disappointed at last. Flirt just to have fun.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2. Don’t Look Reserve:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You need to look approachable. Don’t make any kind of boundaries around you. Look relaxed and confident. Your body language should be such that people find you a fun loving and jolly fellow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3. Read Other Person’s Signs:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To know if he or she is interested in you, if he or she is approachable, you need to read his or her body language. The signals given through the body language are the most important to begin a relationship. At the same time, body language signals should not be misread because they may lead you in uncomfortable position too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4. Eye Contact is Imperative:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Make eye contacts but not for more than a second or two. Staring is strictly prohibited. Just throw the person a prompt gaze, smile with your eyes, and then slowly look other way. If you look back to that person and notice that he or she is also looking at you it might be an indication that he or she is interested in flirting a bit.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;5. Begin a Conversation:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Find a suitable topic to begin a conversation. You can begin with something which can be replied in yes or no, for example: “Nice weather, Isn’t it?”. The only objective of yours is to engage him or her in talking with you, what he or she replies does not matter. If that person replies to your question in a pleasant manner, continue. If you don’t get a reply or the person is indifferent or preoccupied, he or she may not be interested in flirting with you. In the beginning you needn’t talk much about the personal things but about atmosphere, movies, people etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;6. Exchange the information about each other:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If your initial conversation has begun on good note, then you may share some more things about each other in reciprocal manner. You may introduce each other by asking names and other small details. You are needed to open up gradually with each other. If you take any topic, you need to give your own supplements if you have something similar with him of her. For example, if you're talking to a girl who says she's taking painting classes, you might tell her that you are also taking painting classes, and then proceed to tell her which style excites you mate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;7. Give the person utmost attention:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You need to listen and reply attentively to that person. You should be able to show that you find him or her most interesting fellow around. It is said that being a good listener is far more important than being intelligent and witty. Beginning with these steps you may show romantic intentions to that person and if you find him or her accepting, honoring and complimenting your feelings, you can move forward. On the contrary, if you don’t find that person interested you may close the deal and get a new person for the same. But you have to flirt with fun, that’s the essence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.mydearvalentine.com/how-to-flirt.html"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-8888130971252855898?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/8888130971252855898'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/8888130971252855898'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/how-to-flirt.html' title='How To Flirt'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2117/2339391935_f69680c772_t.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-355302756235933173</id><published>2008-11-29T13:37:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-29T13:44:52.106-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>7 Tips to Strengthen Your Relationship</title><content type='html'>&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a title="Temptation by ¤ Underworld ¤, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/x70061x/2824095525/"&gt;&lt;img height="334" alt="Temptation" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3218/2824095525_871b2b4c75.jpg" width="500" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With the divorce rate about 50%, a successful marriage is a true achievement in today's world. In a good relationship, it's the little things that mean a lot. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Here are 7 brief and simple things anyone can do every day.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Give your partner a genuine compliment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Find something you can both share a laugh about.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Give your partner a big hug.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Ask your partner how their day went.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Mention something about yourself that you both can laugh at.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Show appreciation for how your partner handled a problem or got something done.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Offer to go out of your way to do something for your partner.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://top7business.com/?id=3072"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-355302756235933173?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/355302756235933173'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/355302756235933173'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/7-tips-to-strengthen.html' title='7 Tips to Strengthen Your Relationship'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3218/2824095525_871b2b4c75_t.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-6517946563954832587</id><published>2008-11-27T09:03:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-27T09:24:02.772-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Planning your honeymoon</title><content type='html'>&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a title="Leap of Faith by ShanRoseSlav, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/shanroseslav/2184292329/"&gt;&lt;img height="500" alt="Leap of Faith" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2029/2184292329_22b7255bb1.jpg" width="333" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;-Ms.Divine&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;For me nothing was more exciting then peeling of my ten ton wedding dress! Then as the night progressed making sure the elderly,children and drunk friends got home safely. But after that it was all about me! I love this picture because this is exactly what I did when we finally got to or hotel. I was a dancing school girl! Nevertheless, planning or honey money took months of patience to make sure everything is in place. This author can give you helpful tips when planning your special honeymoon!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;By:&lt;a id="link_46" href="http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Sardool_Sikandar"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Sardool&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;Sikandar&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;The honeymoon is a holiday trip taken by a newly married couple. It’s usually taken to celebrate marriage, and presumably, consummate it. The honeymoon is in fact the most romantic, calm and harmonious period of the marital relationship.A honeymoon is very important phase in one’s life. It offers a newly married couple to understand each other physically as well as mentally.The honeymoons are often celebrated in places that are secluded, exotic, warm, or otherwise considered special and romantic. The sunny beaches, scenic coastlines, and mountain retreats are considered perfect honeymoon settings.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;The natural setting plays a great role in a honeymoon. The perfect romantic honeymoon vacation may make a honeymoon, a celestial experience. These are the things that should be planned carefully in advance. One should be very choosy about picking honeymoon vacations.&lt;br /&gt;There are numerous beautiful honeymoon vacation spots in the world and there’s plethora of online sources offering honeymoon vacation, honeymoon package, honeymoon travel and honeymoon cruises.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;But, it’s very tough to make right choice. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://ezinearticles.com/?Make-Your-Honeymoon-Unforgettable&amp;amp;id=133464"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-6517946563954832587?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6517946563954832587'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6517946563954832587'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/planning-your-honeymoon.html' title='Planning your honeymoon'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2029/2184292329_22b7255bb1_t.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-6096795072439321751</id><published>2008-11-27T08:53:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-02T06:29:12.667-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Role of the Maid Of Honor</title><content type='html'>&lt;a title="Day 124 : It's a Nice Day for a... Striped Wedding. by kisluvkis, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/kisluvkis/500895675/"&gt;&lt;img height="444" alt="Day 124 : It's a Nice Day for a... Striped Wedding." src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/202/500895675_0eed602382.jpg" width="500" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Address invitations and place cards&lt;br /&gt;Maintains the dress during the ceremony&lt;br /&gt;Holds the ring during the ceremony&lt;br /&gt;Holds bridal bouquet during the ceremony (how many hands does she have?)&lt;br /&gt;Co-hosts the bridal shower (usually with your parents!)&lt;br /&gt;Fights off Bridesmaid jealousy&lt;br /&gt;Dances with the Best Man (however obnoxious he is)&lt;br /&gt;Helps with the registry when the groom bails out&lt;br /&gt;Gives the toast&lt;br /&gt;Hosts the Bachelorette Party&lt;a href="http://www.weddingstand.com/maid.jpg"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Helps the bride choose bridesmaids' attire&lt;br /&gt;Without a good Maid of Honor, your bridesmaids would likely kill each other, your dress would be a wrinkly mess, and you'd spend your last night as a single woman in front of the TV. And yes, the Maid of Honor also tackles the bridal shower, addresses the wedding invitations, and helps prepare the &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/spicessentials.blogspot.com"&gt;wedding favors&lt;/a&gt;. All this deserves a thank you or a round of applause, but should her gift stand out from the rest of the bridesmaid gifts?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.weddingstand.com/articles/1/maid_of_honor.htm"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-6096795072439321751?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6096795072439321751'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6096795072439321751'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/role-of-maid-of-honor.html' title='Role of the Maid Of Honor'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://farm1.static.flickr.com/202/500895675_0eed602382_t.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-3775477284262397221</id><published>2008-11-27T08:48:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-27T09:34:51.949-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>How To Propose</title><content type='html'>&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a title="A Proposal from the Heart by jonSpot, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/jonathanm71/2328107763/"&gt;&lt;img height="326" alt="A Proposal from the Heart" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3286/2328107763_674b3a3509.jpg" width="500" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;-&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;MsDivine&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Proposing takes &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;alot&lt;/span&gt; of effort and I can't imagine the fear &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;that's&lt;/span&gt; involved to capture the moment &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;much&lt;/span&gt; less rejection. All women dream of the magical place,time,setting and crowd that will be there to enjoy this moment with you. Some people (women) react different than others. You may go threw a &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;roller coaster&lt;/span&gt; of emotions. Some may cry, some may be in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;paralyzing&lt;/span&gt; shock,some may be just plain ol' &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;embarrassed&lt;/span&gt;. Regardless, make the moment a memorable!&lt;/em&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;Relax...Breathe and go for it mister!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;Most of us have a hard time proposing to that special someone. There are several things you need to keep in mind such as where to propose, how or in what way to propose, what you would talk about and the biggest fear what if you get rejected? Read on to discover some of the most effective ways and tips on proposing to that special someone-&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;Step 1 (Preparation)- &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;Ok&lt;/span&gt; so since you've decided you are finally going to propose to that special someone you need to prepare a plan of action and how you would go about doing it. You need to mentally prepare yourself more than just physically. Prepare a list of what her likes and dislikes are and do everything right to make that perfect moment to ask her out.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;Step 2 (Be your best)- &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;Present yourself as your best self. Be very well groomed and keep a healthy smile on your face at all time and emit a positive vibe. The more positive you look the more the chances are that you would get a yes response.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;Step 3 (Surprise her)-&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt; This is the most vital step of them all. Do whatever it takes to make it the best day of her life. Do everything that she likes, take her to all the places she always wanted to go, give her presents which she normally &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;wouldn&lt;/span&gt;’t expect, take her to the best restaurant and order whatever she likes, try to make it the perfect moment and set the perfect stage for proposing to her.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;Step 4 (Timing)-&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;This decides when you would ask her the main question. You would get several moments in the whole conversation to propose her but remember the moment should be perfect and she should in the right moods that's why it's all about the perfect timing. You certainly do not want to catch her in the wrong moods as it can lead to rejection as well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;Step 5 (Pour your heart out)-&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt; When you feel your action plan is working and you have succeeded in doing what’s mentioned in the above steps and found that right moment to propose, just simply pour your heart out. Say whatever you have in your heart. Normally females find it very hard to say no when a person has done so much for them and truly likes them. Remember it &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;shouldn&lt;/span&gt;’t be a dry talk rather tell her the way you actually feel about her with emotion. Females have a very hard time rejecting someone when the emotions and feelings are true.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://ezinearticles.com/?How-To-Propose-And-Get-A-Yes-Response---Achieve-Amazing-Results&amp;amp;id=674702"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-3775477284262397221?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/3775477284262397221'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/3775477284262397221'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/how-to-propose.html' title='How To Propose'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3286/2328107763_674b3a3509_t.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-1313088108391646555</id><published>2008-11-27T08:32:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-27T08:50:32.549-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>How To Keep a Healthy and Romanic Relationship</title><content type='html'>&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a title="700 Field Rings Closeup by jonSpot, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/jonathanm71/2887781875/"&gt;&lt;img height="500" alt="700 Field Rings Closeup" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3025/2887781875_3d9abdd058.jpg" width="333" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;By:Francis K Githinji&lt;br /&gt;Healthy and romantic relationships are such a nightmare to many relationships. Marriage is one thing and a healthy and romantic relationship is another thing. Gone are the days when marriage used to be a matter of trend and tradition, when a grown up was bound by religious and traditional obligations to marry. It's no longer a tradition but a matter of choice. Once a person reaches maturity, the desire to engage in a relationship keeps on steering the inner being and getting married is the next thing that keeps on lingering once mind. In order to keep a relationship healthy and romantic you must be ready to struggle and build a strong foundation to make it firm. I wonder why marriage breakage are so often and the sanctity of marriage no longer holds? Could it be that there is no firm foundation of marriage rooted in love and romance? Before engaging in marriage, one must learn how to keep a healthy and strong relationship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Marriage is the only ideal institution where children can grow and develop a strong foundation for their future life. A child behavior is always determined by his/her source root or background. I agree with the fact that a healthy and romantic relationship is the key to a successful marriage, a successful marriage therefore has an impact on the growth and development of children. I would advise couples who are in a relationship to keep the fire of romance in their relationship burning and to develop a strong and healthy relationship for the sake of the children and there sound development.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are some essential steps that helps couples to keep a relationship healthy and romantic. Remember that your partner is part and parcel of your life, stick to the truth and be trustworthy to your partner. In addition, you must learn to do things together and to make decisions in the consent of one another. Let the force that attracted you to your partner remain forever green and let no one despise your relationship. Keep off from unhealthy conversations that may lead to disagreements and misunderstanding between you and your partner. Learn how to keep a relationship healthy and romantic.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://ezinearticles.com/"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-1313088108391646555?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/1313088108391646555'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/1313088108391646555'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/how-to-keep-healthy-and-romanic.html' title='How To Keep a Healthy and Romanic Relationship'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3025/2887781875_3d9abdd058_t.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-7119141387001867005</id><published>2008-11-25T13:39:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-25T13:46:52.060-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Tips For Planning For Your Honey Moon</title><content type='html'>&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a title="Oh! my love` kiss me even more.... by mis peaches`, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/mis_peaches/2738873768/"&gt;&lt;img height="334" alt="Oh! my love` kiss me even more...." src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3128/2738873768_bfd4d79761.jpg" width="500" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By:Jeremy Low&lt;br /&gt;Plan ahead of time Preparation should begin early. If you want to go to a honeymoon trip after the wedding celebration, then you should have already prepared for it long before the wedding day. Meanwhile if you will go to a honeymoon trip weeks after your wedding day, it is not an excuse to plan late. Preparing for the wedding day is also not an excuse to plan after the wedding. Everything should be prepared. Make sure you have already determined or have booked and made reservation on the location of your trip.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Create a checklist of everything&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If the schedule is hectic and there is so much to do, you surely would forget some important things. Do avoid this from happening; create a checklist of everything you need to prepare. This does not only go with the honeymoon trip; it should also apply to the whole wedding preparation itself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finalize your travel documents&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Make sure that your travel documents are all set before your honeymoon trip. Doing this early would save you a lot of trouble when the day closes near. If you are traveling outside the country, if is advisable to complete all your travel documents and keep them in a safe place.Confirm your booking and reservationBooking your flight and accommodation is not enough. You should confirm them days before you go. Making sure that everything is set and prepared once you arrive should be your primary concern.Relax After youre stressful wedding preparation, you surely would not want to add pressure on your head. Keep in mind that one reason why you are going for a honeymoon trip is to relax, so you should relax. There is no reason why you should make the preparation for your honeymoon trip troublesome. Wedding preparation is stressful enough. You should not add some more.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.4free-articles.com/"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-7119141387001867005?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/7119141387001867005'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/7119141387001867005'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/tips-for-planning-for-your-honey-moon.html' title='Tips For Planning For Your Honey Moon'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3128/2738873768_bfd4d79761_t.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-7804667497489694242</id><published>2008-11-25T08:13:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-25T08:21:53.412-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Personalize your table decor</title><content type='html'>&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a title="Candles by K Fogle Photography, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/kfogle_photography/3003671583/"&gt;&lt;img height="500" alt="Candles" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3009/3003671583_7b632e596b.jpg" width="333" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;-Ms.Divine&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;What is more exciting than decorating for a special event. I will find tons of tips,tricks and ideas to give that personalized touch!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By:&lt;a href="http://www.advicenetwork.com/vendor_listing_article.php?vid=555"&gt;Cait Lynn&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the past, expensive floral centerpieces were common at most wedding receptions. Today, more brides are finding inexpensive, creative ways to "customize" their wedding receptions without spending a lot of money.Here are some great centerpiece suggestions. The prices quoted are from Michael's Arts and Crafts, unless otherwise noted.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Candles -&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Arranging candles of different heights on a small mirror in the center of the table can be quite dramatic. The prices range from $1.00 to $3.00 for 3x3, 3x6, and 3x9 inch candles. Candles can also be placed inside 4" bubble/ivy/diamond ivy cut/swirl ivy glass bowls at $1.00 each. Floating candles are very romantic. A 10" bowl will cost you $7.99 and the candles range from .99 to $1.79.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Flower pots -&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A crafty friend or bridesmaid can purchase 3" clay pots at .69 each, and paint them an elegant white or the colors of the wedding. The bride and groom's name and wedding date can also be added. Plant ivy in the pots, and you have an affordable centerpiece and a memorable wedding favor.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Picture frames -&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can place a grouping of your favorite pictures of the bride and groom on the table as centerpieces. Or, you can choose to have parents, family, and friends put framed pictures of their weddings on the table.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Paper and pen -&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Put pens and decorated pieces of paper that say, "My Favorite Part of Your Wedding Was…" near each setting. Collect the papers, and assemble them in a book you can read on your honeymoon, or read out loud at the reception.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.advicenetwork.com/article/2008/06/05/543-Save-Money-on-Your-Wedding-Table-Centerpieces/"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-7804667497489694242?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/7804667497489694242'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/7804667497489694242'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/personalize-your-table-decor.html' title='Personalize your table decor'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3009/3003671583_7b632e596b_t.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-697147419503723129</id><published>2008-11-25T08:07:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-25T08:08:37.739-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Save more on table decor for holiday's and events</title><content type='html'>&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a title="Table set up -red white and gold by royalmice, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/royalcliff/2069800873/"&gt;&lt;img height="375" alt="Table set up -red white and gold" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2107/2069800873_2fbf60cb6e.jpg" width="500" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why Ready-made Slipcovers?&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;Custom slip covers offer great fit, but they take weeks to make and cost hundreds of dollars in fabric and labor. Re-upholstery costs even more and you must be without your furniture for weeks. New furniture takes an average of 6-8 weeks to deliver and can cost you hundreds, even thousands of dollars. If you think by sewing your own slipcovers you would save money, think again. The cost of fabric and the time it would take for you to sew your own cover make it a more expensive deal than buying ready-mades. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;And what if they don't fit properly after completition?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;Ready-made slip covers on other hand offer an affordable solution for a quick and stylish furnishing cover up. They offer you most for your money. You just pull the cover over your furniture and follow the illustrated instructions for proper styling. And you have instantly transformed your furniture! So for a small investment, you can change the look of your living room, den, dining room, or bedroom quickly and easily just by slipping on a "change of clothes" for your furniture. Feel free to browse our site where we have showcased some of selected designs from leading slipcovers manufacturers on the Net. And transform your home into a more livable and unique space, that reflects your personality! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-697147419503723129?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/697147419503723129'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/697147419503723129'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/save-more-on-table-decor-for-holidays.html' title='Save more on table decor for holiday&apos;s and events'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2107/2069800873_2fbf60cb6e_t.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-4040818925321282747</id><published>2008-11-24T09:51:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-24T10:22:39.231-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Top 10 Marriage Mistakes</title><content type='html'>-Ms Divine&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;I was at the store today and I behind this couple that clearly had some communication issues. The wife or girlfriend was very loud and disrespectful. The young man was asking whether it was really necessary to buy this particular item because they already had some at home in three other colors. Instead of her just taking the time to think about what he said, she went off screaming at the top of her lungs. "Why do you care!" "I don't tell you what to do with your money!" ...Now, I understand where both of them are coming from but to clearly express it in public attempted to embarrass the other person and you is not necessary. Therefore, I felt the need to include these topics of "The Top 10 Marriage Mistakes" and as always some Tips &amp;amp; Suggestions. Live life..Enjoy to the fullest!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. &lt;strong&gt;Lack of Respect&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don't badmouth your spouse to your friends or associates. Spouses need to be thanked. They need to know they are appreciated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tips &amp;amp; Suggestions:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://marriage.about.com/od/difficultissues/a/nastyhabits.htm"&gt;Nasty Habits Can Hurt Your Marriage&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://marriage.about.com/cs/qt.htm"&gt;More Marriage Quick Tips&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2.&lt;strong&gt; Not Listening to Your Spouse&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This includes allowing your mind to wander, paying more attention to the computer or television set, ignoring body language, and interrupting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tips &amp;amp; Suggestions:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Listening   &lt;a href="http://marriage.about.com/od/nonverbal/NonVerbal_Communication.htm"&gt;Non Verbal&lt;br /&gt;Communication Tips &lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. &lt;strong&gt;Lack of Sexual Intimacy&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is a death knell for a marriage. Seek medical counsel and therapeutic counseling if necessary. Don't leave your spouse wondering why you aren't interested in sex. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tips &amp;amp; Suggestions:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://marriage.about.com/od/intimacy/Intimacy.htm"&gt;Intimacy &lt;/a&gt;   &lt;a href="http://marriage.about.com/od/se1/Sexual_Issues.htm"&gt;Sexual Issues &amp;amp; Problems &lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. &lt;strong&gt;Always Having to Be Right&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This includes lecturing your mate, or having to have the last word. Very few people can love a know-it-all forever. Admit once in awhile that you made a mistake or that you don't have all the answers. Don't answer every simple question with a long-winded explanation on the topic.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;When was the last time you or your spouse said or heard any of these statements?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I love you!&lt;br /&gt;Remember when....&lt;br /&gt;You are so clever!&lt;br /&gt;I'm proud of you.&lt;br /&gt;You are so special to me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. &lt;strong&gt;Not Walking the Talk&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Actions do speak louder than words. When you say you'll do something, do it. When you say you won't do something, follow through.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tips &amp;amp; Suggestions:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a class="al" href="http://marriage.about.com/od/keysforsuccess/a/greatspouse.htm" zt="18/1R4/Wa"&gt;So You Want to Be a Great Spouse&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. &lt;strong&gt;Hurtful Teasing&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If your spouse says the teasing is hurtful, considers it a put down, or thinks that it is inappropriate, then stop it. Claiming that your spouse doesn't have a sense of humor or is too sensitive is being inconsiderate and unkind.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://marriage.about.com/cs/humor/a/teasingstop.htm"&gt;[Read More]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. &lt;strong&gt;Dishonesty&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Having lies and secrets in your relationship can create distance and lack of trust&lt;br /&gt; between the two of you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://marriage.about.com/od/trustissues/a/garbagedump2.htm"&gt;[Read More]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8. &lt;strong&gt;Being Annoying&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This includes continuing to have gross personal hygiene habits, or always being late, or nitpicking everything your spouse does, etc. It is when you know you are annoying and you continue to annoy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a class="al" href="http://marriage.about.com/cs/conflictandanger/ht/fightfair.htm" zt="18/1R4/Wa"&gt;How to Fight Fairly&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9. &lt;strong&gt;Being Selfish or Greedy&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is when you spend money on yourself, but make a big deal if your spouse spends a dime. This is not wanting to open your home to friends and family because you prefer to be alone and don't want the hassle of entertaining. This is hogging the remote, only going to cheap restaurants when you could afford better, or not watching movies your spouse wants to see.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10. &lt;strong&gt;Having Temper Tantrums&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Every couple needs to be able to handle conflict in a constructive way. Having an angry outburst so that you can win an argument will make you the loser in the end.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tips &amp;amp; Suggestions:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://marriage.about.com/od/conflictandanger/Deal_With_Conflict.htm"&gt;Conflict and Anger&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://marriage.about.com/od/lettinggo/Letting_Go.htm"&gt;Letting Go&lt;br /&gt;How to Forgive Your Spouse&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://marriage.about.com/od/problemsinmarriage/What_to_Do_When_There_are_Problems_in_Your_Marriage.htm"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-4040818925321282747?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/4040818925321282747'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/4040818925321282747'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/top-10-marriage-mistakes.html' title='Top 10 Marriage Mistakes'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-3164802665109143150</id><published>2008-11-24T05:25:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-25T13:56:54.429-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Momma's Boys 6 Red Flags</title><content type='html'>-Ms.Divine&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Here we go another subject they may seem small to others but &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;definitely&lt;/span&gt; a barrier hard to break. It's amazing how women can have affect on the male gender no matter the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;relationship&lt;/span&gt; (i.e mother/son, husband/wife)In many instances we are &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;dominant&lt;/span&gt; in this area. I seen it to the point that relationship could not make any choices on it's own without that nagging mother n-law giving the final say so. I really think it's sad. Sad because that male will never become a man and you...well lets face it you will not get the respect that you deserve. &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;Nevertheless&lt;/span&gt;, I've included a excerpt from this author that gives her views about the warning signs of a "&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;Mommas&lt;/span&gt; Boy"&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p align="center"&gt;&lt;a title="Happy Mothers Day! by Lawrence Whittemore, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/lawrence_evil/145786038/"&gt;&lt;img height="333" alt="Happy Mothers Day!" src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/55/145786038_84d21cc680.jpg" width="500" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By:Emily &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Battaglia&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Unless you’re just in it for a fling or, ignoring red flags isn't the smartest move to make if you’re serious about finding that special someone.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. He still lives at home&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Men who still live at home are usually in no hurry to grow up, become independent or financially responsible. Are those the kind of traits you really want in a future partner?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. He never invites you over&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;He’s quick to suggest hanging out at your place but never offers up his own digs.This could clearly be a sign of concealment and should definitely be considered as a relationship red flag.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. He’s moving too quickly&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Be aware of someone who moves at the speed of light when trying to win you over.Moving too quickly is usually a sign that he’s uncomfortable being by himself or he’s looking for a woman to help solve his problems.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. He constantly talks bad about an ex&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;He may not like his ex, but there’s no reason he should continue an ongoing verbal assault on her, no matter how sour the relationship went.&lt;br /&gt;Not only is he offering too much information, but it makes him look tacky, resentful and unwilling to take responsibility for his shortcomings in the relationship.Plus, if your relationship &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;doesn&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;’t work out, would you want him constantly talking bad about you later on?Be aware of a guy who talks too freely about past relationships or exes in general, especially if it’s all negative. He may be dealing with a heavy load of unresolved anger.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Excessive Parental Attachment&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;It is one thing to love your mother and father, but it’s another thing to have an excessive relationship with them when you’re an adult.“Excessive” in these terms means “being a mama’s boy,” only having your parents as your friends, letting your parents influence you in every facet of your life, etc.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.lifescript.com/Life/Relationships/Love-101/Moochers_Mamas_Boys_and_More_-_6_Relationship_Red_Flags.aspx?trans=1&amp;amp;du=1&amp;amp;gclid=COXltZn0jZcCFQS7sgodYGa0_g&amp;amp;ef_id=1350:3:c_b9b0cb8089de4f366bf60e45f3d85134_563965265:QzGcv9BkOIYAAHBau1YAAAAB:20081124132045"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-3164802665109143150?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/3164802665109143150'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/3164802665109143150'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/mommas-boys-6-red-flags.html' title='Momma&apos;s Boys 6 Red Flags'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://farm1.static.flickr.com/55/145786038_84d21cc680_t.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-6087500944107726266</id><published>2008-11-22T20:45:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T20:51:27.821-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>5 Reasons You Have Committment Issues</title><content type='html'>By: Carly Young&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. You think forever is a long time&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The thought of eternal togetherness makes you look at the concept of time in a whole different way. If it’s a life-long commitment you or your partner wants, you have to be able to visualize the future and the rest of your life together&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. You fear giving up your freedom&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Single people value their freedom, and for many, especially for those who have been single for such a long time, a committed relationship threatens that freedom. Having to answer to another person might not sound that appealing because every decision you make will have to be with your partner in mind, and that seems stifling to many. However, making decisions for your partnership is what love and commitment is all about, and if you’re not willing to forgo a little bit of freedom, then you’re not ready for commitment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Your other priorities are more important&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Committing yourself to somebody in mind, body and soul just sounds like too much effort and pressure for you. It might feel like you have to put everything else aside. But maybe your other priorities in life just can’t be put on hold. If your priorities are time-consuming.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. You fear betrayal&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You’re never more vulnerable than you are when you’re in a committed relationship, especially marraige. Your vows represent your commitment to one another, but unfortunately these promises aren’t necessarily guarantees. When you fully give yourself to someone, you’re taking on the possibility that your partner may let you down, and that’s a terrifying prospect.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. You’re just not ready for it&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There’s nothing wrong with not being ready for a commitment to someone. Sometimes it’s your circumstances, state of mind, age, other priorities, or all of these factors combined. Maybe you don’t think you’re worthy or capable of being one half of a successful relationship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.lifescript.com/Life/Relationships/Hang-ups/5_Reasons_You_Have_Commitment_Issues.aspx"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-6087500944107726266?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6087500944107726266'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6087500944107726266'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/5-reasons-you-have-committment-issues.html' title='5 Reasons You Have Committment Issues'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-2403874247582204286</id><published>2008-11-22T20:35:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T20:43:35.140-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Are You Over Your Ex?</title><content type='html'>&lt;em&gt;-Ms.Divine&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Now ladies and gentlemen this is a topic that none of us want to admit to nor face. I personally do not have this problem. But, I do have a friend that fights this everyday. They live in the same city and it seems like she picks up the phone to express what it does to her every time they see each other. She is married and he is a bachelor. This I'm sure can be very confusing and heartbreaking considering the circumstances of how you all broke up in the first place. As always Ms.Divine expresses not only her thoughts but gives our readers thoughts from another. Stay tuned..Soon we will have open our &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;chat room&lt;/span&gt; for discussion on "Throw it at me Thursday's"&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By: &lt;a href="http://www.lifescript.com/Life/Relationships/Wreckage/Are_You_Over_Your_Ex.aspx"&gt;Carly Young&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Letting go of an old relationship and truly getting over your ex can be one of the biggest challenges life has to offer. Only time, forgiveness and soul-searching can help you to move on and put the pain behind you. But even if months or years have passed, part of you may still be hanging onto your ex or the memories of the relationship. You may still want to get back together after all this time or you may find yourself consumed with rage when you remember the abominable way you were treated. Oftentimes, feelings of longing for you ex manifest themselves in subtle ways that affect your daily life in more ways than you may realize. So how do you know if you’re truly over your ex? Read on to find out. Plus, see what others are saying...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What Happens When You Visit Your Old Haunts?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There may be places all over your town that remind you of your former lover. For example, if you and your ex loved to spend Saturday mornings at the independent coffee shop down the street, you may think of him every time you drive by. Or, if your first kiss was at an amusement park, you may think nostalgically about the relationship every time you return for a visit. Thinking about your ex occasionally &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;isn&lt;/span&gt;’t necessarily bad. After all, if you really loved someone then you can’t just expect to erase him completely from your memory.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-2403874247582204286?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/2403874247582204286'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/2403874247582204286'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/are-you-over-your-ex.html' title='Are You Over Your Ex?'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-6436794611977944178</id><published>2008-11-22T19:47:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-23T20:31:53.033-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Top 10 Relationship Complaints</title><content type='html'>By: Ms.Divine&lt;br /&gt;1. We don't have enough time&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;I can't say it enough communicate...communicate..COMMUNICATE! Regardless, if your both at work or not, pick up the phone and express that your thinking about them. Text messages are at a all time High! So is picture mail! Slip off and send a special message, Give him/her something to look forward to when they get home.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. He/She never listens to me&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Listening is most important. If you can not have a simple conversation without talking over each other or screaming things will never get better. Walking off from a conversation doesn't make things better either. Take it slow, submission is sometimes the key. For example: Depending on how extreme the argument or discussion is sit your partner down, get some some warm oil and massage their feet..rub their shoulders..then BAM! Speak with a soft concerning tone and express your views of the topics at hand. Let me know how it works out for you.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. He doesn't tell me I'm sexy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;#1 Unless you make it known that this is a problem he can't read your mind.&lt;br /&gt;#2 Lead By Example: Tell him how sexy he looks in those favorite boxers"&lt;br /&gt;#3 Let the games begin! Spontaneous fashion shows in your favorite lingerie usually does it&lt;br /&gt;#4 Everyone is different, you know each others likes and dislikes learn by trial &amp;amp; error&lt;br /&gt;#5 Don't give up!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Am I fat?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Usually ladies you are the only one that is feeling this way. If the love is deep it doesn't matter your size,scars or other pet peeves you may have about yourself. By complaining about your weight and lack thereof is stressing him out more than you because he has no clue what to do. you have two options. STOP IT!!!! Or find a work out buddy and RESOLVE IT!!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Who does he love more..Me or his best friend?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;This is a huge problem in most relationships. Usually the fact is that this is his only "outlet" His/Her chance to hold on to a childhood. Being a adult is stressful! lol Nothing feels better than going out with your friends and "cuttin a rug" or acting just out right goofy..but responsible. An alternative would be double dates but sometimes this could back fire because some people are more reserved than others. Going out "every weekend" will not necessarily be apart of your plans.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. He plays golf, play station or pool too much!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;I myself wish the play station was never created. It is worst than a bunch of guys watching Sunday Football. Nothing is worse than hosting or just knowing that a house full of grown men wasting hours on in playing a video game. Same goes for bowling or any other sport. My father is a pro-bowler. Coming up I basically lived in the bowling alley and I swore never to step foot in another bowling alley for the rest of my life. My advice to you is to find a sport or hobby that interest you that replaces that time.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. Am I his maid or his woman?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;In the "honeymoon" stage everything from his morning breath, the way he snores or his favorite t-shirt thrown on the couch seems cute..{to some women}. This has to be nipped in the bud [from the beginning]. He/She only do what you allow them to do. If you start out cleaning up after them, cooking at the drop of a dime "knowing" your anal about these sort of things..who's fault is it? YOURS! Make a commitment of what duties belong to who that way there is no misunderstanding.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8. How come I have to be the one to initiate sex? All he wants to do is have sex?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;As the older you get your sex drive tends ride this mental roller coaster because that is what it is. Bringing your problems home from work, balling things up inside and lack of rest all play apart. There has to be a time to "make time" for the both of you before this once "romantic affair" becomes a chore.lol Those of you that have done it just to get something you wanted know what I'm saying. [All he wants to do is have sex] Well you sexy little thang! More than likely the both of you were inseparable and started this trend long ago and technically is hard to break. My advice would be to interact in other activities and make it a weekly thing. For example: Game night or your favorite show. My favorite is "Deal or No Deal"&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9. We don't go out anymore&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Again, making time for the things you make a necessity in the relationship to "get" him or her is what you have to KEEP doing. If you started the fine dining on a McDonald's salary you must make a shift quickly to something just as romantic. Use your imagination, search for idea's and other romantic locations such as walks on the beach every Thursday's, french toast Friday's, Want you Wednesday's. Play dates are the key.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10. Do I look as good as I did when we first got together?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;This depends on you. Mentally and physically. If someone told us when we were fifteen that our cute little assets will drop to our knees as early as thirty if we continued to eat candy bars we still probably wouldn't have listened anyway. So here you are in your mid thirty's. That lovely gray string just keeps coming back!!! My assets aren't as perky as they use to be! Well get over it and continue to were those "vogue bra's" and those extra tight undies that take your breath away when you bend over to hold everything in place. That's the life as a woman. On another note I can't stand to hear men feelings as though these rules don't apply to them. I'm sure that round playground you have mista man wouldn't have been as becoming ten years ago...&lt;/em&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-6436794611977944178?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6436794611977944178'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6436794611977944178'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/top-10-relationship-complaints_22.html' title='Top 10 Relationship Complaints'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-744698350214596401</id><published>2008-11-22T19:45:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T19:46:41.800-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Respecting Your Husband</title><content type='html'>&lt;em&gt;-Ms.Divine&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt; This passage was respectively written by &lt;/em&gt;&lt;a href="http://christianwomentoday.com/womenmen/respect.html"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Cyndie Hamley&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;em&gt; some of these articles may seem to true to you, some may beg to differ. Me being the dominant one in a relationship would have to immediately run and draw up a contract of "Common Ground and Terms &amp;amp; Conditions. Some women are submissive to the point that the sky is hot pink if their husband told them so. I would immediately pull out the periodic table and require you to explain it to the third power. All are respectively different. Enjoy&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Respecting your husband,Even when you don't think he deserves it"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Pray for him daily&lt;br /&gt;2. Remember that God has put him in the position of leadership&lt;br /&gt;3. Make a list of your husband's qualities that you appreciate&lt;br /&gt; 4. Tell your husband what you appreciate about him&lt;br /&gt;5. Don't criticize your husband to others&lt;br /&gt; 6. Look for the positive side of things&lt;br /&gt; 7. Respond to his loving advances with enthusiasm.&lt;br /&gt;8. Don;t hesitate to question his decisions that he has made&lt;br /&gt;9. If you find yourself thinking negative about your husband STOP and choose something   positive.&lt;br /&gt;10. 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As a by-product of substance abuse, it may present as: a) reckless conduct and loss of inhibitions or b) drug-seeking behavior.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With respect to violence that is a manifestation/by-product of control: the alcoholic and the drug addict may use violence to control his/her access to their substance. Whereas, the partner or spousal abuser uses violence to control his/her victim.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is common knowledge that substance abuse is an addiction to one's substance of choice; however domestic abuse is more of a psychosocial addiction to control. Knowing this distinction makes it possible to select the appropriate intervention for one's condition/situation. You wouldn't want treatment for one condition if you indeed suffered from another condition, would you?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yet more often then not, couples in abusive relationships quickly cling to one type of intervention without recognizing the importance of this differential diagnosis. Even if the couple is experiencing both domestic violence and substance abuse, each of these conditions must be treated for what it is, not for what it may look like at first glance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have seen numerous cases in which a substance abuse treatment protocol has been used for couples suffering from partner or spousal abuse solely, or in combination with substance abuse. Unfortunately, the net result can increase the risk factors for the battered partner.&lt;br /&gt;If you are in an abusive relationship, seek to clarify for yourself if what you're dealing with is intimate partner violence and/or substance abuse before you begin a regimen of intervention.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://ezinearticles.com/?Spousal-Abuse-Or-Substance-Abuse---How-Do-You-Know?&amp;amp;id=1272791"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-6903367972793404380?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6903367972793404380'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6903367972793404380'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/substance-abuse-spousal-abuse-how-do.html' title='Substance Abuse, Spousal Abuse &quot;How do you know?&quot;'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-3539435380917710536</id><published>2008-11-22T15:35:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T15:38:08.892-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Losing Weight Before Your Wedding</title><content type='html'>By: Nicholas Ruiz&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;It is not just the bride who is usually interested in losing weight before a wedding. Very often, every bridesmaid and maid of honor also must consider losing weight before a wedding, especially if the required dresses for the big day are not so easy on hiding rolls or oversized thighs. This same interest often extends to parents of the bride and groom as well as many friends and family members who want to look their best at the wedding. With so many people setting the same goal of losing weight before a wedding, there should be tons of support for everyone to walk the aisle a little smaller.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If your goal is losing weight before a wedding and find your motivation lacking, look around at others on the guest list and find a weight loss crew. Others who live near you and already know you personally can be great support to help you reach your goal, and since they are likely aiming for similar goals you can be a big motivation to them as well.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just letting others know you are attempting losing weight before a wedding will open the door to find out about others who are as well. Once the group is identified it is up to you how far you take it. From a pat on the back and a "you can do it" in passing to meeting at the park to workout together, there are lots of ways to support one another.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is important on any weight loss journey to have someone you can call in a bad moment who will give you straight advice and help you make the best choices for your goal of losing weight before a wedding and your overall health in the long term as well. If you can find a walking buddy or gym partner they can hold you accountable.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://ezinearticles.com/?Losing-Weight-Before-a-Wedding---Together&amp;amp;id=1587383"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-3539435380917710536?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/3539435380917710536'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/3539435380917710536'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/losing-weight-before-your-wedding.html' title='Losing Weight Before Your Wedding'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-8014196980065326996</id><published>2008-11-22T15:30:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T15:32:51.301-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Seven Tips to Personalize Your Wedding Vows</title><content type='html'>By: Wanda Lam&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;The wedding vow is the promise the bride and the groom make to each other during the wedding ceremony. A wedding without vows is an unfamiliar sight.&lt;br /&gt;Wedding vows are essential in any marriage ceremony. Now-a-days, modern wedding ceremonies offer the flexibility of allowing you to write and say your own vows.&lt;br /&gt;If you decide to write your own personally meaningful wedding vows, then here are a few things to keep in mind.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. When you write your own vows, you naturally start to think of all the good reasons why you want to be with the person you are going to marry. Writing your own vows makes the words you say more natural and from the heart.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. If you don't know what to say, or you don't know how to start it, or you just want to add a few additional thoughts, then you can get ideas by reading books on the topic or performing a search on the web for free wedding vows.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can look at a few of the sample wedding vows online and borrow some ideas or words from each to add to your own unique vows. You can also try taking a particular sample and just changing a few words to suit you. You can also take a wedding vow you really like and use it as is.&lt;br /&gt;3. If you want a touch of artistic expression to your vows, try adding a few lines of poetry from the popular works by Gibran, Keats or Browning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. You may want to include some of the lyrics from your favorite song. Couple's often have a song or tune that symbolizes their love for each other, sort of like the song that is danced to during the reception or after the wedding dinner.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. While you are thinking about what to say in your vows, you may consider your lifestyles, your personalities and your interests.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. Share with each other what you have written. You both can bounce back ideas; revive special moments you had with each other. This will help you discover what to include in your vows.&lt;br /&gt;Make sure you let the Officiate or person who will be marring you know ahead of time that you are writing your own vows. He or she can inform you about what must be included and may provide a few pointers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://ezinearticles.com/?Wedding-Vows:-Seven-Tips-For-Personalizing-Your-Own&amp;amp;id=132401"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-8014196980065326996?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/8014196980065326996'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/8014196980065326996'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/seven-tips-to-personalize-your-wedding.html' title='Seven Tips to Personalize Your Wedding Vows'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-4914396835801094765</id><published>2008-11-22T12:41:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-02T10:23:15.237-08:00</updated><title type='text'>ADVERTISE WITH US</title><content type='html'>&lt;!-- Begin myContactForm.com Form HTML --&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;form name="contactForm" method="post" action="http://www.mycontactform.com/sendform/sendform.php"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;input name="user" type="hidden" id="user" value="spice08" /&gt;&lt;input name="formid" type="hidden" id="formid" value="199563" /&gt;&lt;input name="subject" type="hidden" id="subject" value="Advertise With Us" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table width="100%" style="border: 0px solid #000000; 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Satin Etch (also known as “Satin Frost”) is the process of imprinting a frost type color effect on the glass. This process is included in the pricing of all packages provided by Atlanta Urban Spice. Satin Etch is very versatile for any event and provides elegance and style which is of importance for any entertainment entity or event.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;With Satin Etching, you do not have to worry about color-coordinating the glassware and decor. As with ceramic imprints, Satin Etch is permanent, will never scratch off and is 100% dishwasher safe!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Atlanta Urban Spice provides Elegant Signature Glassware for entertainment facilities &amp;amp; events.Enhance Your Elegance!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-5545154706566902260?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/5545154706566902260'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/5545154706566902260'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/why-are-spice-essentials-unique.html' title='Why are Spice Essentials Unique?'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-1092897266299047182</id><published>2008-11-22T09:19:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-23T09:49:17.433-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='About Us'/><title type='text'>Why Atlanta Spice Essentials?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/SR5JFIjypQI/AAAAAAAAAqs/J7rbFRfx918/s1600-h/divine-logo.png"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5268728966615835906" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 186px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/SR5JFIjypQI/AAAAAAAAAqs/J7rbFRfx918/s320/divine-logo.png" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Why Atlanta Spice Essentials? &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Ms. Divine is the president of Atlanta Urban Spice, LLC. While working as a entertainment promoter for many aspiring music artist, she saw the need to enhance the reputation of many clubs of Atlanta. With research she determined assisting club owners with the opportunity to provide a collectors item for their guest by using personalized glassware. Therefore, she created "Personalized Entertainment Essentials" to establish a signature that represents not only her creativity but a collectors item for local Atlanta hotspots, entrepreneurs and businessmen. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Therefore, by enhancing your elegance is not only a keepsake item but establishes referral base for many wedding consultants, event planners and club owners. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;To request more information&lt;a href="http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/request-more-information.html"&gt;[Click Here]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-1092897266299047182?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/1092897266299047182'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/1092897266299047182'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/why-atlanta-spice-essentials.html' title='Why Atlanta Spice Essentials?'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/SR5JFIjypQI/AAAAAAAAAqs/J7rbFRfx918/s72-c/divine-logo.png' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-3184290169333439022</id><published>2008-11-22T09:18:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:18:57.383-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='About Us'/><title type='text'>Special Events</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/SR4zBMlFmNI/AAAAAAAAAqM/lfHHlkW1W_Q/s1600-h/u30856797.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5268704709719726290" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 143px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 170px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/SR4zBMlFmNI/AAAAAAAAAqM/lfHHlkW1W_Q/s320/u30856797.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;Atlanta Spice LLC provides signature glassware decor for many events. Whether you need to show your employees appreciation or celebrate a family reunion, Atlanta Spice Essentials, will create a signature package to fit your needs. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some of the events we provide for:&lt;br /&gt;Club Entities&lt;br /&gt;Weddings&lt;br /&gt;Anniversary&lt;br /&gt;Family Reunions&lt;br /&gt;Fashion Shows&lt;br /&gt;Bachelor/Bachelorette Parties&lt;br /&gt;Employee Appreciation&lt;br /&gt;Graduation&lt;br /&gt;Birthdays&lt;br /&gt;Showers&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Just click &lt;a href="http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/request-more-information.html"&gt;Request More Information &lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-3184290169333439022?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/3184290169333439022'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/3184290169333439022'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/special-events.html' title='Special Events'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/SR4zBMlFmNI/AAAAAAAAAqM/lfHHlkW1W_Q/s72-c/u30856797.jpg' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-8107474839749614799</id><published>2008-11-22T09:18:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:18:18.095-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Club Basic Packages'/><title type='text'>B) Club Basic</title><content type='html'>Club Basic~B&lt;br /&gt;$4,200.00&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-75-Shot Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-75-Shot Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-100-Brandy Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-100-Margarita Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-100-Champagne Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-100-Wine Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-100-Daiquiri Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-100-Hurricane Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-100-Pilsner Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-100-Martini Glasses&lt;br /&gt; &lt;em&gt;Packages A&amp;amp;B have the option of engravement. Prices exclude this option. Prices are the same unless quanities or style is changed. Quanities are negotiable with a minimum of 75 ordered.&lt;br /&gt;Please call for a quote:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-8107474839749614799?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/8107474839749614799'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/8107474839749614799'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/b-club-basic.html' title='B) Club Basic'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-8559219429580970291</id><published>2008-11-22T09:17:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:17:49.794-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Club Basic Packages'/><title type='text'>A) Club Basic</title><content type='html'>&lt;p align="left"&gt;Club Basic~ A&lt;br /&gt;$3,200.00&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-75-Shot Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-75-Brandy Snifters&lt;br /&gt;-75-Margarita Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-75-Champagne Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-75-Wine Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-75-Daiquiri Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-75-Hurricane Glasses&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Packages A&amp;amp;B have the option of engravement. Prices exclude this option. Prices are the same unless quanities or style is changed. Quanities are negotiable with a minimum of 75 ordered.&lt;br /&gt;Please call for a quote:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-8559219429580970291?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/8559219429580970291'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/8559219429580970291'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/club-basic.html' title='A) Club Basic'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-8636940638742554413</id><published>2008-11-22T09:16:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:16:35.249-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Club Signature Sets'/><title type='text'>Spice Package 1,000 Units</title><content type='html'>Spice Package&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;$2,800.00&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"All items are engraved with your company name"&lt;br /&gt;200 Shot Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-50 Shot Glasses of Atlanta Spice GET 10% OFF!&lt;br /&gt;200-Champagne Flutes&lt;br /&gt;200-Wine Glasses&lt;br /&gt;200-Margarita Glasses&lt;br /&gt;200-Pilsner Glasses&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-8636940638742554413?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/8636940638742554413'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/8636940638742554413'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/spice-package-1000-units.html' title='Spice Package 1,000 Units'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-6228024778185281608</id><published>2008-11-22T09:15:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:16:04.150-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Club Signature Sets'/><title type='text'>V.I.P Package 11,200 Units</title><content type='html'>V.I.P Package&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;$26,200.00&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"All items are engraved with your company name"&lt;br /&gt;1500 Shot Glasses&lt;br /&gt;1000-Champagne Flutes&lt;br /&gt;1000-Wine Glasses&lt;br /&gt;1000-Margarita Glasses&lt;br /&gt;1000- Brandy Snifters&lt;br /&gt;1000-Daiquiri Glasses&lt;br /&gt;1200-Pilsner Glasses&lt;br /&gt;1500- Martini Glasses&lt;br /&gt;1500-Hurricane Glasses&lt;br /&gt;500-Ashtrays&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-6228024778185281608?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6228024778185281608'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6228024778185281608'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/vip-package-11200-units.html' title='V.I.P Package 11,200 Units'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-3758975734419381722</id><published>2008-11-22T09:15:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:15:21.953-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Club Signature Sets'/><title type='text'>Platinum Package2900 Units</title><content type='html'>Platinum Package&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;$6,200.00&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"All items are engraved with your company name"&lt;br /&gt;300 Shot Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-50 Shot Glasses of Atlanta Spice GET 10% OFF!&lt;br /&gt;300-Champagne Flutes&lt;br /&gt;300-Wine Glasses&lt;br /&gt;300-Margarita Glasses&lt;br /&gt;300- Brandy Snifters&lt;br /&gt;300-Daiquiri Glasses&lt;br /&gt;300-Pilsner Glasses&lt;br /&gt;300- Martini Glasses&lt;br /&gt;200-Hurricane Glasses&lt;br /&gt;200-Ashtrays&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-3758975734419381722?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/3758975734419381722'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/3758975734419381722'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/platinum-package2900-units.html' title='Platinum Package2900 Units'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-1941359513604396227</id><published>2008-11-22T09:14:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:14:52.835-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Club Signature Sets'/><title type='text'>Gold Package1800 Units</title><content type='html'>Gold Package1800&lt;br /&gt;$6,200.00&lt;br /&gt;"All items are engraved with your company name"&lt;br /&gt;200 Shot Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-50 Shot Glasses of Atlanta Spice GET 10% OFF!&lt;br /&gt;200-Champagne Flutes&lt;br /&gt;200-Wine Glasses&lt;br /&gt;200-Margarita Glasses&lt;br /&gt;200- Brandy Snifters&lt;br /&gt;200-Daiquiri Glasses&lt;br /&gt;200-Pilsner Glasses&lt;br /&gt;200- Martini Glasses&lt;br /&gt;200-Ashtrays&lt;br /&gt;Add&lt;br /&gt;-200 Hurricane Glasses for $285.00&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-1941359513604396227?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/1941359513604396227'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/1941359513604396227'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/gold-package1800-units.html' title='Gold Package1800 Units'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-5289149595600024959</id><published>2008-11-22T09:13:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:14:20.552-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Club Signature Sets'/><title type='text'>Silver Package1400</title><content type='html'>Silver Package1400&lt;br /&gt;$5,200.00&lt;br /&gt;"All items are engraved with your company name"&lt;br /&gt;200 Shot Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-50 Shot Glasses of Atlanta Spice GET 10% OFF!&lt;br /&gt;200-Champagne Flutes&lt;br /&gt;200-Wine Glasses&lt;br /&gt;200-Margarita Glasses&lt;br /&gt;200- Brandy Snifters&lt;br /&gt;200-Daiquiri Glasses&lt;br /&gt;200-Pilsner Glasses&lt;br /&gt;Add&lt;br /&gt;-200 Martini Glasses for $500.00&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-5289149595600024959?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/5289149595600024959'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/5289149595600024959'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/silver-package1400.html' title='Silver Package1400'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-5501818576310864531</id><published>2008-11-22T09:13:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:13:37.172-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Club Signature Sets'/><title type='text'>Gold Package</title><content type='html'>Gold Package&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;$4,500.00&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"All items are engraved with your company name"&lt;br /&gt;150 Shot Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-50 Shot Glasses of Atlanta Spice GET 10% OFF!&lt;br /&gt;150-Champagne Flutes&lt;br /&gt;150-Wine Glasses&lt;br /&gt;150-Margarita Glasses&lt;br /&gt;150-Daiquiri Glasses&lt;br /&gt;150-Brandy Snifters&lt;br /&gt;150-Pilsner Glasses&lt;br /&gt;150 Martini Glasses&lt;br /&gt;150-Ashtrays&lt;br /&gt;Add&lt;br /&gt;-150 Hurricane Glasses for $285.00&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;QuantitiesPlease call for a quote.are negotiable with a minimum of 150 ordered.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-5501818576310864531?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/5501818576310864531'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/5501818576310864531'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/gold-package.html' title='Gold Package'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-4631964389527555508</id><published>2008-11-22T09:12:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:13:02.050-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Club Signature Sets'/><title type='text'>Silver Package</title><content type='html'>Silver Package&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;$3,500.00&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;"All items are engraved with your company name"&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;150 Shot Glasses&lt;br /&gt;-50 Shot Glasses of Atlanta Spice GET 10% OFF!&lt;br /&gt;150-Champagne Flutes&lt;br /&gt;150-Wine Glasses&lt;br /&gt;150-Margarita Glasses&lt;br /&gt;150-Daiquiri Glasses&lt;br /&gt;150-Brandy Snifters&lt;br /&gt;150-Pilsner Glasses&lt;br /&gt;Add&lt;br /&gt;-150 Martini Glasses for $220.00&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-4631964389527555508?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/4631964389527555508'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/4631964389527555508'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/silver-package.html' title='Silver Package'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-8210692836577105026</id><published>2008-11-22T09:09:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-02T10:22:05.415-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Club Signature Sets'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Signature Sets'/><title type='text'>Club Signature Set</title><content type='html'>Club Signature Gift Set&lt;br /&gt;$200.00&lt;br /&gt;"Prices based on one name engravement"&lt;br /&gt;"Items vary in price per engravement selection"&lt;br /&gt;4-Shot Glasses&lt;br /&gt;5- Champagne Flutes&lt;br /&gt;2- Pilsner Glasses&lt;br /&gt;2-Ashtrays&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Margarita, Daiquiri, Martini are not included in this set.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;PRICE BASED ON (2) NAME ENGRAVE ONLY! ADDITIONAL CHARGES APPLY.EMAIL FOR A QUOTE IF NAME IS MORE THAN (2) WORDS.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-8210692836577105026?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/8210692836577105026'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/8210692836577105026'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/club-signature-set.html' title='Club Signature Set'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-204002665661762328</id><published>2008-11-22T09:09:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:09:27.601-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='The Atlanta Guide'/><title type='text'>Atlanta Tuxedos</title><content type='html'>&lt;em&gt;You've found that special someone that loves you for you. However, you still need to look your best for her at the wedding. Atlanta is full of businesses that sell and rent tuxes. Since we've already compiled the list of places, there's no excuse for waiting until the last minute. You can find the perfect tux for you and your attendants. You've impressed her with who you are on the inside – now you can impress her by looking handsome on the outside.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/authors/6.html"&gt;By: Nicole&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Bridals by Lori&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Black Tie by Lori is a full-service men's formal wear boutique for the discriminating male. We carry designer formal wear and unique accessories that set our customer apart from the crowd.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;6021 Sandy Springs Circle Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(404) 252-8767&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Clara's Wedding 7 Alterations&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wedding gowns, attendant gowns, flower girls dresses, custom gowns and dresses, alterations, headpieces and veils, accessories and tuxedos.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;7875 F Roswell Road Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(770) 730-0255&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Pero's Formal Wear&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Perno’s Formal Wear, an Athens tradition for over 20 years, is a family owned and operated business. We have everything from the most traditional formal clothing to all the latest looks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1066 Baxter Street Athens, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(706) 354-8072&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="right"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.myatlantawedding.com/categories/tuxedos/index.html"&gt;[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-204002665661762328?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/204002665661762328'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/204002665661762328'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/atlanta-tuxedos.html' title='Atlanta Tuxedos'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-4535095543567545318</id><published>2008-11-22T09:08:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:08:52.968-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='The Atlanta Guide'/><title type='text'>Atlanta Dance Instruction</title><content type='html'>&lt;em&gt;Do you have two left feet?? No worries, we'll get you on the right track. Finding a Atlanta dance instructor is as easy as one, two, three... four... Impress your partner with your new moves. These Atlanta instructors are ready and waiting to turn your college dance moves into something a little more sophisticated. No matter what song plays at the reception, you should be prepared to dance the night away with the one you love.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;By: &lt;a href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/authors/6.html"&gt;Nicole&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Dance City Ballroom&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just can't get into the swing of things? Bring your special song and they will choreograph your first dance for you. As an added benefit, you will be featured on our website.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;721 Miami Circle, Suite 103 Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(404) 312-0133&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Firefly Studio Dance&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let's put some fire to it and help you create the perfect wedding dance! Their experienced instructors will have you dancing with confidence and ease on your special day. We provide basic lessons to full choreographed dances.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1026-C Atlanta Avenue Decatur, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(404) 377-4070&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Fire Dance Productions Atlanta&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dance champions Honey Larsen and Buddy Stotts teach together on all private and group lessons. Specializing in personalized wedding choreography.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;11783 Wellsey Way Alpharetta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(404) 217-0099&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;GG's Ballroom&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First and last dance instruction, parents of the wedding party lessons, group lessons for receptions, rehearsal dinners and other wedding festivities.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2581 Piedmont Road Buckhead, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(404) 242-9334&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Mr.Twinkletoes&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mr. Twinkletoes - your source for fun, low pressure, and professional dance instruction for your wedding, special event, or just for the heck of it... taught right in your living room!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;209 14th Street, #206 Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(404) 372-4125&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Pasofino&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Impress your guess with your wedding dance! Experienced instructors can teach you the basics or tailor a dance choreography to music of your choice."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;8610 Roswell Road, Suite 910 Sandy Springs, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(678) 895-6955&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.myatlantawedding.com/categories/dance_instruction/index.html"&gt;[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-4535095543567545318?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/4535095543567545318'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/4535095543567545318'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/atlanta-dance-instruction.html' title='Atlanta Dance Instruction'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-8834446996740802990</id><published>2008-11-22T09:07:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:08:17.131-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='The Atlanta Guide'/><title type='text'>Atlanta Gown Preservation</title><content type='html'>&lt;em&gt;After the vows are exchanged and the reception comes to an end, you and your new spouse will be left to rejoice in the day with one another. Under the circumstances, having to take off your beautiful wedding dress is not such a bad thing... but it is important that it be properly cared for so that it will last for years to come. Our listing of Atlanta wedding gown preservation and dry cleaning services will help ensure a long life for your treasured gown.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;By: &lt;a href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/authors/6.html"&gt;Nicole&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Dunwoody Cleaners&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Family-owned-and-operated, Dunwoody Cleaners offers high-quality dry cleaning services, as well as alterations and repairs on all types of clothes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2140 Johnson Ferry Road NE Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(770) 452-0752&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;New Natalie's Bridals&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;New Natalie's feature the top international designers of bridal gowns, bridesmaids, mothers, flower girls, veils, tiaras, and accessories. Gown preservation and cleaning available.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;919 Chattahoochee Avenue Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(404) 352-1616&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Designers' Best&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Family owned and operated and has been in business for 8 years! We offer wedding gown preservation &amp;amp; wedding gown alterations.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2701 Bouldercrest Road Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(770) 385-6165&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Professional Cleaners&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wedding gown restoration, cleaning and preservation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;142 Hilderbrand Drive Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(404) 255-2146&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.myatlantawedding.com/categories/gown_preservation_dry_cleaning/index.html"&gt;[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-8834446996740802990?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/8834446996740802990'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/8834446996740802990'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/atlanta-gown-preservation.html' title='Atlanta Gown Preservation'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-6507909427162336315</id><published>2008-11-22T09:07:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:07:40.002-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='The Atlanta Guide'/><title type='text'>Atlanta Disc Jockey's</title><content type='html'>&lt;em&gt;The music that you choose as the soundtrack for your wedding day helps create and enhance the mood of the celebration. In other words, you don't want a disco tune blaring over the sound system if you're having more of a love ballad moment during the first dance with your beloved... or maybe you do! No matter what your musical style, browse our list to find the right Atlanta disc jockey who will be in tune with your tastes and make sure you and your guests get your groove on!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By: &lt;a href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/authors/6.html"&gt;Nicole&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Atlanta Party DJ and Video&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With more than 15 years of entertainment experience we can make your next event the most memorable of a lifetime.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Serving Greater Atlanta Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(404) 822-0829&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Atlanta Pro DJ&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Professional disc jockey and emcee service, custom designed wedding reception itinerary, up to 4 hours, state-of-the-art sound system, 9,800-plus songs, lighting package and more!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4145 Ivy Run Circle NW Duluth, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(770) 623-0157&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Atlanta's Best DJ&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;More fun! Guaranteed! See how our new approach to weddings will make your special day unforgettable. Fun, unique and memorable!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Serving Greater Atlanta Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(770) 931-1315&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Electrifying Entertainment&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Electrifying Entertainment offers excellent customer service to ensure not only do our clients have a great time at their events, but they have a great time planning it as well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Serving Greater Atlanta Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(678) 508-2254&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Event Performance&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Event Performance has been providing clients all over the Southeast with the finest in entertainment for many years and has built a reputation for consistent quality.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1132 Hightower Trail, Suite F Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(770) 518-1317&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Mike's Mobile DJ&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Your Personal Disc Jockey" means just that...I will be there from the time we meet for the first time, to the time I say good bye to you and your guests after the celebration.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Serving Greater Atlanta Lawrenceville, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(770) 945-2621&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p align="right"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.myatlantawedding.com/categories/disc_jockeys/index.html"&gt;[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-6507909427162336315?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6507909427162336315'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6507909427162336315'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/atlanta-disc-jockeys.html' title='Atlanta Disc Jockey&apos;s'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-1692547241176640025</id><published>2008-11-22T09:06:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:07:07.834-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='The Atlanta Guide'/><title type='text'>Atlanta Reception Facilities</title><content type='html'>&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;em&gt;From traditional to zany, we've got all kinds of options for you to choose from. Look here to see our list of Atlanta wedding reception facilities, Atlanta wedding venues, and other exciting Atlanta wedding locations.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;By: &lt;a href="http://www.mywedding.com/blogs/mywed/authors/6.html"&gt;Nicole&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;103 West&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;103 West is Atlanta's premiere private party space, with world-class cuisine and service. 103 West is perfect for all wedding events - from six to 600 guests - rehearsal dinners, ceremonies, receptions and showers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;103 West Paces Ferry Road Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(404) 233-5993&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;173 Carlyle House&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The 173 Carlyle House is a special events facility in historical downtown Norcross.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;173 South Peachtree Street Norcross, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(770) 662-5800&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;755 Club&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your special event becomes a whole new ball game when you book the 755 Club. Our facility is state-of-the-art in every way: location, view, menu and event planning. 24,000 sq ft of event space.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;755 Hank Aaron Drive Atanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(404) 614-2177&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Anthony's&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Our restaurant and banquet facilities are comprised of 12 elegant rooms and grounds including a patio for outdoor weddings and other special events.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3109 Piedmont Road Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(404) 262-7379&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Ashford Club&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Ashford Club specializes in hosting weddings, receptions, and rehearsal dinners. To plan your special event, we offer a variety of menus &amp;amp; packages to select from, or you may customize your menu.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;5565 Glenridge Connector, Suite 100 Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(404) 459-2507&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Atlanta Botanical Garden&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Host your wedding reception amidst the lush and bountiful Atlanta Botanical Gardens.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1345 Piedmont Avenue NE Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(404) 876-5859&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Atlanta National Golf Club&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you have ever dreamed of having your wedding on beautifully landscaped grounds or of having your reception in an elegant setting with impeccable service then ANGC is the place.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;10 Tournament Players Drive Alpharetta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(770) 442-8801&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;BluePointe&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sleek and exciting decor characterized the new, fully enclosed private dining space at Bluepointe. Full-service event planning and custom menus are available and of course the award winning food.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3455 Peachtree Road Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(404) 237-9070&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Bona Allen Mansion&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A magnificent historic Italianate mansion set on a manicured six-acre estate offering gourmet catering, custom weddings, receptions, and event planning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;395 East Main Street Buford, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(770) 271-7637&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Canoe&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With sweeping views of the Chattahoochee, the River Garden provides tranquil al fresco celebration year round. Choose from a festive variety of beautiful party tents to create a truly memorable event.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4199 Paces Ferry Road Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(770) 436-9292&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Cator Woolford Gardens&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This enchanting secret garden in the heart of Atlanta offers a unique and exquisite outdoor space. The serenity and natural beauty create perfect ambiance. Tent and indoor atrium included in rental.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1815 Ponce de Leon Avenue Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(404) 377-3836&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Cavender Castle&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Cavender Castle is a special events venue where you can let your imagination run free and plan an occasion that your guests will always remember.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Atlanta, GA&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;(706) 864-8594&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="right"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.myatlantawedding.com/categories/halls/index.html"&gt;[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-1692547241176640025?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/1692547241176640025'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/1692547241176640025'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/atlanta-reception-facilities.html' title='Atlanta Reception Facilities'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-6921265101175598152</id><published>2008-11-22T09:06:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:06:35.180-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Open Letter to My Hair Stylist By:Violet Brown</title><content type='html'>-Ms.Divine&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Haven't we all experienced a time when our hairstylist thought she was "Edward Scissor Hands" My stylist was my mother for years until one day....I was nineteen years old, my hair was like "Rudy" off the "Cosby Show". My mother says to me "Girl! you need your ends trimmed!" Keep in mind my hair was to my hips and thick as wool. I noticed a grinding noise like she was cutting threw wool! I jumped up and felt the back of my head. I was in tears! Now, I look like "Toni &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Braxton&lt;/span&gt;!" Which really wasn't that bad but, needless to say it's now years later and my hair &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;hasn't&lt;/span&gt; been that l&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;ucius&lt;/span&gt; since! &lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;So I found this "Open Letter to My &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;HairStylist&lt;/span&gt;". Enjoy&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;By: Violet Brown&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have been trying very hard these last two weeks to accept what you have done to my head. But I can’t. I just can’t! Every morning, I find it hard not to cry while attempting to style the so-called haircut you gave me. I just don’t think you understood me when I said, “Cut it like it is now, only an inch or two shorter.” I’m afraid you misheard me, or perhaps you just &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;weren&lt;/span&gt;’t paying attention. I am really very sure that I did not say, “Just chop it all off randomly, especially on top and around the ears.” Nor did I say, “I want to look as if I had my hair cut by a John Deere riding mower.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I hate to complain, but I feel so violated. Humiliated, even. Gone are my smooth, shiny “&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;Uma&lt;/span&gt; Thurman in Pulp Fiction” locks. My sleek vintage look has been utterly destroyed in the name of trendiness. I can’t express how “not me” this look is. Whose haircut is this, anyway? I am too old for this and I look ridiculous. All I need is a My Chemical Romance t-shirt and I could disappear into any high school in the United States. No one could possibly take me seriously looking like this! I’m sure you &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;weren&lt;/span&gt;’t thinking in terms of my professional life when you made certain executive decisions concerning my hair. &lt;a href="http://www.divinecaroline.com/article/22323/44684-open-letter-hairstylist?CMP=ILC-MstLkedWdgt"&gt;[CONTINUED]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-6921265101175598152?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6921265101175598152'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/6921265101175598152'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/open-letter-to-my-hair-stylist-byviolet.html' title='Open Letter to My Hair Stylist By:Violet Brown'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-609597642838838478</id><published>2008-11-22T09:05:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:05:59.413-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Before you say "I Do" Acknowledge the WARNING SIGNS</title><content type='html'>Ms.Divine&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Being in love is a wonderful thing, I have included several inspiring posts written by various authors. Lets be honest, we can not be naive to think that the less glorious of situations are not happening everyday. I felt it was necessary to post this for those that need it but don't want to acknowledge it.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By: Karen Green&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;CHOOSING A mate is one of the most important decisions we will make in our lifetime. It is a step that should not be taken lightly. Therefore, it is important to consider the decision to marry—and the person whom we decide to marry—from all angles. In addition, it is important to be aware of “red flags” during the dating and engagement period. If a behavior makes you feel uncomfortable, trust your instinct. It is better to end a relationship in this stage than to be trapped in an abusive and unhappy marriage.As a counselor, I have worked with female victims of domestic violence. It was very difficult for these women to come to terms with the fact that the man they loved was causing them such physical harm, and that to remain in the marriage could possibly cost them their lives. Many of these women came to realize through counseling that there were some red flags prior to marriage that they either rationalized or ignored.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We should wisely and prayerfully consider the important decision of choosing a mate. Therefore, I am offering the following as indicators of a potentially abusive mate:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Your potential mate constantly makes fun of or belittles your accomplishments.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Your potential mate has a difficult time controlling their anger.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Your potential mate tries to isolate you from family and friends.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Your potential mate constantly engages in reckless behavior.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Your potential mate attempts to control your life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. Your potential mate sometimes hits or pushes you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. Your potential mate uses the Bible to justify their abusive actions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.adventistreview.org/article.php?id=1013"&gt;Read More[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.adventistreview.org/article.php?id=1013"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-609597642838838478?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/609597642838838478'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/609597642838838478'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/before-you-say-i-do-acknowledge-warning.html' title='Before you say &quot;I Do&quot; Acknowledge the WARNING SIGNS'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-2788869529744314056</id><published>2008-11-22T09:05:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:05:22.465-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>How much should you spend on a engagement ring?</title><content type='html'>By: Solomon Brothers Fine Jewelry&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;How much should you spend on an engagement ring?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;A variety of factors influence the price of engagement rings:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;The four Cs (cut, color, clarity, carat)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;The style and shape of the ring&lt;/em&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The type of metal chosen for the band and setting The best way to choose a ring is to simply find out which factors are &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;most important&lt;/span&gt; to your &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;fiancé&lt;/span&gt;. Then, get the best ring you can afford.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Does she have her heart set on a 1 carat diamond or is clarity more important to her?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Does she prefer gold, platinum or palladium?&lt;br /&gt;What shape appeals to her the most?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kudzu.com/guidesArticle.do?guidename=wedding&amp;amp;articleID=3702"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-2788869529744314056?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/2788869529744314056'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/2788869529744314056'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/how-much-should-you-spend-on-engagement.html' title='How much should you spend on a engagement ring?'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-29934852382079065</id><published>2008-11-22T09:04:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:04:47.927-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Find A Wedding Planner With A Plan</title><content type='html'>Are you getting married but worried you can't handle the details of planning by yourself? Then it's time to call in a professional wedding planner. Wedding planners take care of all the minutiae of holding a top-notch function — from finding a location, catering, and décor to negotiating contracts and evaluating proposals — so you can focus on the big picture. A good wedding planner should:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Conduct research.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Create a wedding design.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Find a site.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Arrange for food, décor and entertainment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Plan transportation to and from the events.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Send invitations to attendees.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Arrange any necessary Atlanta accommodations for attendees.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Coordinate the activities of event personnel.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Supervise at the site.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Conduct evaluations of the event.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;When hiring a planner:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;Trust your own experience. Make a list of similar Atlanta weddings you've attended that were managed impeccably, then ask the hosts if they used a wedding planner.&lt;br /&gt;Have pertinent information ready. When you talk to a wedding planner, you'll need to provide the key facts about your wedding, including the time and date, number of guests and budget. The planner will ask you a host of other questions as well — be ready with as many answers as you can to help them get started.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Be creative. The key to having a memorable wedding is standing out from the crowd. Allow yourself to think outside the box and encourage your wedding planner to do the same. The planner can help with the grand vision for the wedding and take care of all the details. When you're not worried about the details, you'll be freed up to help your planner with the big picture and enjoy planning your special day. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kudzu.com/guidesArticle.do?guidename=wedding&amp;amp;articleID=2881"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-29934852382079065?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/29934852382079065'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/29934852382079065'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/find-wedding-planner-with-plan.html' title='Find A Wedding Planner With A Plan'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-7562722394460626537</id><published>2008-11-22T09:03:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:04:11.497-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Planning A Family Reunion Checklist</title><content type='html'>By: &lt;em&gt;Ms.Divine&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are several aspects to consider when planning a family reunion:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-&lt;strong&gt;Where to go&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Atlanta has many places that are available,affordable and accessible for any event. We have  parks, such as &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/stonemountainpark.com/"&gt;Stone Mountain&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/www.callawaygardens.com/"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Callaway&lt;/span&gt; Gardens&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/www.chastainpark.org"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;Chastain&lt;/span&gt; Park&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/www.atlantabotanicalgarden.org/"&gt;Botanical Gardens&lt;/a&gt; and several museums such as &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/www.fernbankmuseum.org"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Fernbank&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/www.apexmuseum.org"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;ApexMuseum&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. We also have resorts outside the metro Atlanta area &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/www.seaisland.com/"&gt;Sea Island&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/v"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;Barnsley&lt;/span&gt; Gardens&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/www.tybeeplace.com"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;Tybee&lt;/span&gt; Island&lt;/a&gt; and many more!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-&lt;strong&gt;Where to stay&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Choosing a location is very important! Lakeside view, hotels, cozy cabins or cottages are a essential aspect of designing your event. Choose a location that is affordable and accessible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-&lt;strong&gt;What to do&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Arranging excursions, whether it's nature walks or activity classes. These events are what family members look forward too and assure that monies invested are well spent. Create a budget that is feasible for everyone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-&lt;strong&gt;What to eat&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whether your family chooses a catering service or services provided by your special location, you must make sure the menu is suitable for everyone. For example: fish&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-&lt;strong&gt;What to wear&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Where ever you plan to spend your reunion it is more than important for children as well as elderly and pregnant women to bring appropriate attire. Take into consideration medical conditions,climate etc. You would hate for the uncle Bobby the comic to encounter sinus problems! Please make to sure to resolve this in advance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-&lt;strong&gt;What to send&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Within 15months time proper notification should be sent to all attendees to keep them informed of the upcoming event.  In the beginning stages approximately 15months before, send out group letters and invitations inquiring to where the reunion should be held. What kinds of activities and how long it should last. Inform them of a deadline and that their suggestions are of importance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;In 12 months time contact representatives and titles should be assigned. Send out invitations including Where,When and Cost. Be sure to include any registration fee's or any other additional cost to give family members ample notice.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;The next six months a monthly newsletter should be send to family members to keep them informed of any changes or changes needing to made. For example, develop a menu and determine who will bring what. If banquet service is needed or barbecue grills are needed, &lt;em&gt;signature glassware&lt;/em&gt; plates etc. and enclose that this information is needing to be assigned. Ask for volunteers! Who is going to stay behind after everyone is exhausted! &lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-&lt;strong&gt;Ways to reminisce&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With all family reunions the joy of meeting members that you have never had a chance to meet, new members and legends. It is always best to come prepared with stories,facts,pictures and everything else to create a joyous moment and learning experience!&lt;br /&gt;-How many children are attending&lt;br /&gt;-Is there adequate amenities&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-7562722394460626537?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/7562722394460626537'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/7562722394460626537'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/planning-family-reunion-checklist.html' title='Planning A Family Reunion Checklist'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-2408970982784657032</id><published>2008-11-22T09:03:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:03:27.622-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Keep The Guest in Mind When Planning Your Wedding</title><content type='html'>By: &lt;a href="http://www.associatedcontent.com/user/4720/joanne_faries.html"&gt;Joanne Faries&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, back to the actual wedding service itself. First, if you are having all of your friends in the wedding party in full gown and tux regalia, then the ushers should also wear tuxes and actually haul people to their seats. I witnessed a lot of milling about in the church lobby, and ushers in street clothes standing around. No one was asking if you wanted to sit on the bride side or the groom side. It was chaos. If you are having a traditional wedding, then stick with the traditions that people expect. Once people are seated and the service begins, try to avoid too many readings from your bridal party.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Having someone clomp in heels from one end of the church to the other, to come up and stumble over some scripture is excruciatingly boring for your audience. You quickly lose your guests interest. We want to hear the "I do, I do" and "You may kiss the bride". If you have come this far in the wedding plan, then stick with tradition. You are now a Mr. And Mrs., and you and your family and bridal party should be in line to greet your wedding guests. I was amazed that this did not occur at this last wedding I attended. Grandparents were not introduced. Our family (this was a nephew getting married) did not meet the bride's parents. It was very odd.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The bride and groom went back into the church for pictures and the guests were left to stand around. There was no rice or birdseed thrown as the couple leaped into a limousine. There was no limousine. Again, if you are planning a formal wedding and blowing plenty of dollars, then rent a limousine, for goodness sakes. Once again, it is time to discuss the reception. Hopefully, you have settled on a proper time and your guests are not fainting from hunger. If you have planned this much, then go ahead and make the effort to create a seating plan. You should have the bridal party at the head of the room at one table.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Again, I witnessed no organization at this last wedding. If there is a buffet line, the wedding party should be first to go through it. Again, I was amazed to see the maid of honor at the back of the line.I have no food ideas for you. Food is very subjective and can be very expensive. Use your own judgment based on the amount of people you are feeding. You cannot please everyone, so be sure to choose food you and your new spouse like to eat. In regards to beverages, have water glasses and pitchers on the table. Otherwise, having sodas, beer, and wine available is a nice touch, along with a cash bar option. The alcohol factor is expensive and again subject to one's family situation and other social issues. That is your call entirely.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/15722/keep_the_guests_in_mind_when_planning.html?page=2&amp;amp;cat=23"&gt;Read More[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-2408970982784657032?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/2408970982784657032'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/2408970982784657032'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/keep-guest-in-mind-when-planning-your.html' title='Keep The Guest in Mind When Planning Your Wedding'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-3282402880380942315</id><published>2008-11-22T09:02:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:02:51.171-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>5 Wedding Tips You Might Not Hear</title><content type='html'>By: &lt;a href="http://www.associatedcontent.com/user/14659/stephanie_h_dray.html"&gt;Stephanie Dray&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1.&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;em&gt;Carry a Lightweight Bouquet.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In order to keep the flowers fresh at my wedding, the florist included a special grip around the base of the bouquet that was filled with water. Not only did it end up dripping ice-cold water on my dress during the ceremony, but it made the bouquet weigh what felt like 10lbs. My elbow was literally shaking during the ceremony, and not from the jitters! The day after the wedding, I could barely move my arm. See to it that your bouquet is lightweight and easy to hold, so that you don’t have any distractions from the important vows you’re about to make.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2.&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;em&gt;Make Photos Priority Number One.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don’t ever skimp when it comes to your photographer at the wedding. This should be your highest priority because your wedding day is about the memories; long after the cake has been eaten, the flowers have died, and the bridesmaid gowns have faded, you’ll still have the photographs. If you’re disappointed with how the photos come out, it will color your memories of your special day. And every bride deserves to be beautiful, and have pictures she’s proud to show her family and friends. If you have to cut back on your wedding budget—do it elsewhere. Your photographs are the touchstone you’ll have to remember these moments in time; make them count.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3.&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;em&gt;Don’t Try A New Cosmetics Regime.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You may be tempted, days before the wedding, to try an entirely new cosmetics regime, or to use tanning lotion, or to use Nair, or to get yourself waxed. Word to the wise: Don’t. In the two weeks before your wedding, you’re likely to be more stressed out than ever before. Your skin is likely to be more sensitive too. While trying a new foundation might not normally make you break out into hives, these are not normal times. If you’re going to wear new make-up or tanning lotion for the big day, start making the transition a month in advance. Consider plucking instead of waxing. (Sometimes, a sensitive layer of skin might come up with the wax strip, leaving you a slightly red seeping wound—no reason to chance that on your big day.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4.&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;em&gt;Keep a Control Journal.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I thought it was a joke, really, when I heard my DJ playing Cool and the Gang, since Cool and the Gang topped our Do Not Play List, just above the Chicken Dance. The DJ would later claim (under much pressure from my bridesmaids - hell hath no fury like bridesmaids trussed up in wine-colored lace) that he did not receive the Do Not Play List. I knew I’d written one, but I was kind of busy being the bride—too busy to go argue with the DJ about music. If I’d kept a control journal of everything I wanted and didn’t want, I could have whipped out an extra copy and handed it to him. If you have instructions as to how you want your day to go, from the flowers to the cake, to everything else, write them out in a Journal and have one of the bridesmaids bring it to the wedding. This way, if the waitresses are giving your vegetarian Uncle Henry chicken when he was supposed to get the egg souffle, you can have someone whip out an extra copy of the menu sheet and order will be restored.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;5.&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;em&gt;Take your Time on the Aisle.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hopefully, you’ll get to be a bride exactly once in your life. That walk down the aisle, when all eyes are on you and your escort, is one that you want to remember and savor. Walk much slower than you think you should walk. Stagger your steps even, if you like. What most people don’t tell you is that it’s the reverse trip that’s the most fun. Once you’ve said your vows, been pronounced man and wife, and find yourself leaving the altar, that’s the most beautiful moment. All your guests are there, clapping for you and happy. Resist the urge to run. Take in their love, cherish the moment, and really stop and feel it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/56462/5_wedding_tips_you_might_not_hear_anywhere.html?cat=23"&gt;[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-3282402880380942315?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/3282402880380942315'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/3282402880380942315'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/5-wedding-tips-you-might-not-hear.html' title='5 Wedding Tips You Might Not Hear'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-5743866812812164661</id><published>2008-11-22T09:01:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:02:11.218-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Wedding Day Butterflies</title><content type='html'>By: &lt;a href="http://www.associatedcontent.com/user/78646/sophie.html"&gt;Sophie&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Everyone gets nervous on their wedding day. It is only natural to go through this experience and to feel a nauseating knot build up in the pit of your stomach as you contemplate the walk down the aisle or the wait at the aisle as your bride arrives. Unfortunately, the happiest days of your life are often fraught with such anxiety. But rather than give in, there are a few things you can do to keep your nerves under control and carry on with your wedding ceremony without giving in to your nerves.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Get a good night's rest&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The night before the wedding can be the most unbearable time of all as you anticiapte the next day and how it will turn out. Even well matched couples who are deeply in love may start to have doubts and wonder, "Am I doing the right thing? What if I let him/her down?" Do not take this to mean that you should call off the wedding altogether. It is a natural part of the wedding process. The feelings will usually subside. If they don't, then you will have to make an honest self-examination. The best thing you can do is to get a good night's rest the day before the wedding, rather than allow yourself extra time to brood and think up even more reasons not to get married.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Practice run&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If at all possible, arrange to have a practice run of the wedding ceremony a few days prior to the wedding. This will allow you the opportunity to practice walking down the aisle, you will have an idea of where everyone will be sitting and you will know how far to walk to. Nerves are often a symptom of a fear of the unknown. But if you have a clear idea of how the ceremony will be conducted, then you are less likely to be plagued with such feelings on the day of your wedding.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Think positively&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/314618/3_ways_to_overcome_wedding_day_nerves.html"&gt;[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-5743866812812164661?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/5743866812812164661'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/5743866812812164661'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/wedding-day-butterflies.html' title='Wedding Day Butterflies'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-345483772958001801</id><published>2008-11-22T09:00:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:01:12.296-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>By: &lt;a id="link_46" onmouseover="javascript:toggle_visibility('extendbio')" onmouseout="javascript:toggle_visibility('extendbio')" href="http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Dr._Mark_Clayson"&gt;Dr. Mark Clayson&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The moment you’ve waited for has finally arrived! It’s your wedding day and it’s the day that you’ve planned for since you were a little girl (or, even a little boy). You’re finally marrying the man (or woman) of your dreams and nothing will mar the beauty and exhilaration of this event.&lt;br /&gt;Well, that’s what you think. Brides and grooms always seem to be fighting nerves on their wedding day. What with all the details that need to be checked, double-checked, even triple-checked and a lot of decisions that seem to want your approval, it’s only natural that you feel a little stressed even on such a momentous occasion. But fighting nerves on your wedding day can be easily taken care of if you follow a few simple tips.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One good tip is to make lists. The more organized you are and the more prepared you are then the less likelihood will there be of anything going wrong (the fear of which is a major cause of wedding day nerves). Even before the day itself, you can already make a list of things that need to be done before, during and after the wedding. For instance, during the “before” stage, the list will most likely comprise of suppliers to call, people to invite, reservations to be made etc. The “during” list is a list of activities that revolve around your wedding day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These include, getting your hair and make-up done, sessions with the videographers and photographers, preparations for the bridesmaids and entourage, getting ready preparations at the venue and a host of other things. The “after” list is more of a clean-up crew kind of list. This means that you also need to consider the things that you brought into the wedding area and reception need to be brought back home with you or your family. For example, leftovers from the party need to be packed, sealed and taken away. Guestbooks, cards and gifts need to be brought home as well. All of these things need to be thought of in advance so that they won’t bother you on the actual day of your wedding.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These are simple things but can cause heartache and worry if not planned for. Get someone to help with the arrangements and planning and – make those lists!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://ezinearticles.com/?Wedding-Day-Nerves---Make-Lists&amp;amp;id=511223"&gt;[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-345483772958001801?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/345483772958001801'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/345483772958001801'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/by-dr.html' title=''/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-2683868805422268420</id><published>2008-11-22T08:59:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T09:00:27.561-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Tips-n-Tricks'/><title type='text'>Six Worst Wedding Gifts</title><content type='html'>By Nancy Redd&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wedding season is fast approaching, and along with the celebrating comes the tricky task of finding the right &lt;a href="http://shopping.aol.com/wedding+gift-products/?refCode=aolpartner_shoparticles"&gt;wedding gift&lt;/a&gt;. What to buy the happy couple and where to get it? To find out what gifts will and simply will not do when someone you know gets ready to say "I Do," check out the ten nuptial no-nos below.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gift Gripe: The bride and groom live 2500 miles away, and Aunt Sheryl refuses to ship her gift of six expensive champagne flutes. A thoughtful gift, yet impractical to travel with cross country.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Great Gift: Shipping your present directly from the store to the newlyweds before the event is an ideal way to handle a long-distance couple. But if you can t bear the idea of showing up empty-handed, then make a splash minus the crystal crash. Choose a gift that is easy to transport, such as an &lt;a href="http://shopping.aol.com/egyptian+cotton+towel+set-products/?refCode=aolpartner_shoparticles"&gt;Egyptian Cotton Towel Set&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gift Gripe: Cousin Jim actually had the nerve to re-gift that ugly set of dishes he received a few months ago. Did he think no one would notice?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Great Gift: Don't let the pressure on your wallet lead you to re-gift (especially when you travel in the same circles). Instead, opt for a low-cost yet lovely present, such as a&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/"&gt;Stainless Steel Bar Set&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gift Gripe: Faced with a high-priced registry, Paul decided to ignore it in favor of purchasing a monogrammed serving tray. A neat idea, but risky. It might not match the couple's taste or decor, rendering it useless since it's non-returnable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Great Gift: If the happy couple's registry prices seem too high, give them a &lt;a href="http://shopping.aol.com/pages/Gift-Cards/100212"&gt;gift card&lt;/a&gt; to the store where they registered for a more appropriate amount. A few pluses to this approach: gift cards are tax free, come in tons of cool designs, and the couple can choose what they want from a store they obviously like. Many companies let you order them online with free shipping.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gift Gripe: Mary really overstepped her bounds when she gifted the conservative couple with matching his and hers thong underwear. While perhaps cute as a shower present, penning a thank you note that reads "thank you for the lovely panties" is not the bride's idea of suitable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Great Gift: His and hers gifts don't have to be risqu to get noticed. If you're determined to give a duo gift, think about these personalized &lt;a href="http://shopping.aol.com/terry+robes-products/?refCode=aolpartner_shoparticles"&gt;terry robes&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gift Gripe: Cousin Barb totally knew that as a second marriage, neither the bride nor groom needed any household products. She decided to give the couple pots and pans anyway.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Great Gift: The desire to give a useful, everyday gift is a hard one to ignore, but useful doesn't have to mean routine. Instead, gift something unique and practical, like a &lt;a href="http://shopping.aol.com/conair+fabric+press-products/?refCode=aolpartner_shoparticles"&gt;Conair Fabric Press&lt;/a&gt;. It makes clothes look dry-cleaned with a single press.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gift Gripe: A boring, old-school toaster. 'Nuff said.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Great Gift: &lt;a href="http://shopping.aol.com/toasters-products/?refCode=aolpartner_shoparticles"&gt;Toasters&lt;/a&gt; don't have to be a gift gripe. Believe it or not, there are some pretty fabulous toasters that would make any couple smile, such as a polka-dotted rainbow one. Every newlywed needs a way to toast her bread, so you might as well make it fun.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="right"&gt;&lt;a href="http://shopping.aol.com/articles/2008/03/28/wedding-gifts/"&gt;Source[..]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-2683868805422268420?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/2683868805422268420'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/2683868805422268420'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/six-worst-wedding-gifts.html' title='Six Worst Wedding Gifts'/><author><name>Spice Avenue</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_meRK-bXpnjk/Sng_IlgUgSI/AAAAAAAAA2E/f9gZ_NAYLFA/S220/spicebannerfinalwithtab.jpg'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7579188901713125279.post-7991283815292275849</id><published>2008-11-22T08:58:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-22T08:59:12.653-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Weddings-n-Anniversary'/><title type='text'>B)Sugar &amp; Spice Wedding</title><content type='html'>Sugar &amp;amp; Spice Wedding&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;$3,200.00&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;"All items are engraved with Bride &amp;amp; Groom names"&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;"Additional engraved options ex: graphic art"&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;75-Shot Glasses100-Champagne Flutes&lt;br /&gt;100-Wine Glasses&lt;br /&gt;100-Martini Glasses&lt;br /&gt;75-Daiquiri Glasses&lt;br /&gt;75-Margarita Glasses&lt;br /&gt;75- Brandy Snifters&lt;br /&gt;Add&lt;br /&gt;-75 Hurricane Glasses for $185.00&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/7579188901713125279-7991283815292275849?l=spicessentials.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/7991283815292275849'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7579188901713125279/posts/default/7991283815292275849'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://spicessentials.blogspot.com/2008/11/bsugar-spice-wedding.html' title='B)Sugar &amp; 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